{"id":182,"date":"2020-08-10T08:52:34","date_gmt":"2020-08-10T08:52:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fractionation.net\/?p=182"},"modified":"2022-05-06T08:08:05","modified_gmt":"2022-05-06T00:08:05","slug":"how-to-apologize-to-your-girlfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/how-to-apologize-to-your-girlfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Apologize To Your Girlfriend (Use the “REVERSE APOLOGY”)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Did you just hurt your girlfriend or turn her off?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Is she pissed off or disgusted at you right now?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Did you do something “wrong” which led to a breakup<\/a>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Did you make a mistake in your relationship<\/a> which you wish you hadn’t?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Do you want to know how to apologize to your girlfriend properly and bring things back to the way they used to be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you answered \u201cyes\u201d to any of those questions, then here\u2019s the first thing you need to know…<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s a GOOD thing you want to apologize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It means you care about your relationship and your girlfriend\u2019s feelings. The world needs more guys like you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n But here\u2019s the catch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At the same time, apologizing to your girlfriend may NOT be the best thing to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because it sets a bad precedent, it makes you look weak, and it dooms your relationship in the long run.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Shocked? Don\u2019t be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let me explain by looking BEYOND what you did to hurt your girlfriend or turn her off…<\/p>\n\n\n\n …and take a look at the very BASIS of all male-female relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The strongest, happiest, longest-lasting relationships out there are based on one thing:<\/p>\n\n\n\n ATTRACTION.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n And for a woman to stay attracted to a man… she must continually see him as the strongest, most dominant, most impressive guy in her life<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And that\u2019s the problem with apologizing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When you apologize to your girlfriend, you\u2019re basically saying: \u201cYou\u2019re right, I\u2019m wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n In other words, you put her in a higher \u201cposition\u201d than you. You put her on a pedestal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And as a result, even if it\u2019s just for a moment, she sees you as weaker than she is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And suddenly, you\u2019re no longer the strongest, most dominant, most impressive guy in her life…<\/p>\n\n\n\n …and suddenly, all her attraction goes flying out the window.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now your relationship is REALLY <\/em>in trouble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I hope you see the problem now! Figuring out \u201chow to apologize to your girlfriend\u201d is a complete non-starter. It\u2019s true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n So instead of apologizing, do this instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Do the \u201cReverse Apology.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n What\u2019s the \u201cReverse Apology?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n This article will tell you everything about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Reverse Apology is going to make things right with her, make you look stronger and more dominant… and most importantly, make her love you more in the long run.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Now, you might be thinking: \u201cIs the Reverse Apology really necessary?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019ll answer that question with another question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What\u2019s more important to you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Without a doubt, your relationship\u2019s long-term success is more important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And sometimes, you need to give up short-term success to ensure long-term success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And giving up your relationship\u2019s long-term success just to make your girl happy now… that\u2019s not very smart, wouldn\u2019t you agree?<\/p>\n\n\n\n So if you want to ensure your relationship\u2019s long-term success… as every good man should… then read this article to the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Five to seven decades ago, the divorce rate was at 10%.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Today, that divorce rate is 50% or higher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Do you know why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here\u2019s why:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Power.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Like it or not, every long-term exclusive relationship involves a power structure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And in the happiest, healthiest relationships, it\u2019s the man who holds the top position.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He\u2019s the wise, benevolent leader… and his woman is his trusty, loyal sidekick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s the basic math of civilization itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But five to seven decades ago, the \u201cequality\u201d movement happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n All of a sudden, \u201cco-equal\u201d relationships became the norm. <\/strong>The man was no longer the leader, and instead, he shared his authority co-equally with his wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The result? A disaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now half of all marriages end in divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But thankfully, that figure is dropping, although very slowly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s because millennials are realizing that relationships DO need a power structure1<\/a><\/sup>. And so their relationships are stronger and happier than their parents\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now that brings us back to our problem in this guide today.<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow To Apologize To Your Girlfriend (The Right Way)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Why “Equality” Doesn’t Work In Relationships<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n