{"id":263,"date":"2020-08-15T01:03:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-15T01:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/?p=263"},"modified":"2020-09-07T16:49:59","modified_gmt":"2020-09-07T08:49:59","slug":"how-to-deal-with-gaslighting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/how-to-deal-with-gaslighting\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Deal With Gaslighting In A Relationship (Or Marriage)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\"><strong>Are you being &#8220;gaslighted&#8221; by your woman?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is she making you doubt yourself more and more over time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or is she making you feel more and more guilty, or evil, or insignificant?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is she reducing you to a mere shell of what you used to be as a man?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If so, then yes \u2013 she\u2019s gaslighting you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you keep allowing her to, it\u2019s going to continue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust me \u2013 when your woman gaslights you, there\u2019s no good outcome. In the end, your relationship will fail \u2013 either she leaves, or you will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The good news?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then this article will answer all your questions and more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;re about to learn exactly WHY she&#8217;s gaslighting you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re also about to find out why most men don&#8217;t know how to deal with gaslighting in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And later in this article, you\u2019ll also learn how to make the gaslighting stop for good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"\ud83d\udd34 How To Deal With Gaslighting In A Relationship (Or Marriage)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Us1d-FooBIs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s start with the biggest question of all: <strong>WHY is she gaslighting you in the first place?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How To Stop Gaslighting In A Relationship<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So let me explain Gaslighting by telling you its history.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I first learned about gaslighting from my mentor, the dating coach Derek Rake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unlike most other dating coaches, Derek doesn\u2019t teach his students Pickup. Instead, he teaches them how to understand the female mind completely. He teaches men about women&#8217;s motivations, tactics, and deepest needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And as it happens, gaslighting is one of the ways women pursue their DEEPEST NEEDS.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let me explain&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You remember all those mind games women played on you in the past?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"303\" src=\"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/gaslighting-phrases.jpg\" alt=\"how to expose a gaslighter\" class=\"wp-image-502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/gaslighting-phrases.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fredohill.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/gaslighting-phrases-297x300.jpg 297w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>They played hard-to-get&#8230; or they were hot-and-cold&#8230; or they sent you mixed signals&#8230; and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gaslighting is exactly like that. It\u2019s a mind game. And it\u2019s probably the most EXTREME kind of mind game a woman can play on you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that brings us to the question: <strong>WHY do women play mind games on the men they love?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s the answer. And it\u2019s something most men NEVER figure out in their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women play mind games on us because it\u2019s their way of TESTING us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For what, you ask?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re testing us to see if we\u2019d make good, strong partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is \u2013 they\u2019re testing us to see how strong and dominant we are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is instinctive, by the way. Most times, women don\u2019t even KNOW they\u2019re testing for strength and dominance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s just that deep in their two-million-year-old brains, they know. Strength and dominance are the most important traits in the man they\u2019ll be committing to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, when it comes to mind games, you LOSE the game when you react to them in a weak or needy way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A few examples of weak and needy responses include the following.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>It\u2019s when you get angry.<\/li><li>Or when you get offended.<\/li><li>It\u2019s also when you withdraw and avoid her.<\/li><li>And it\u2019s when you comply with all her demands like a whipped puppy.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When you react to her mind games in these weak and needy ways, then she knows. You\u2019re not a strong, dominant guy&#8230; and so she leaves you and moves on to other guys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, in a committed relationship, she CAN\u2019T move on to other guys. She\u2019s stuck with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And so she keeps playing her mind games on you, hoping you\u2019d \u201cman up\u201d and show your strength and dominance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, when you react in weak ways, she instinctively ramps up the mind games. And eventually, her mind games will mutate into gaslighting \u2013 their most extreme form.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you\u2019re being gaslighted by your woman right now, THAT\u2019S how you got to this point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pretty messed up, huh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, dealing with gaslighting is straightforward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You simply need to <strong>man up, but you must do it in a way she does not expect.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That way, she\u2019ll think you\u2019re manning up of your own accord. And that\u2019s so much better than manning up in response to her challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I hope you\u2019re getting the picture by now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what\u2019s the best way to man up while being gaslighted?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By using a technique that\u2019s called, aptly enough, \u201cReverse Gaslighting.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I\u2019ll show you how it works in just a bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Now here\u2019s how the Reverse Gaslighting technique works.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The first thing to do is to <strong>disappear.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yup, you heard that right. You pack your bags and then you leave. It could be for a few days or a week, or a few weeks \u2013 it\u2019s up to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The key is to NOT tell your woman anything. And when she calls or texts after you, you ignore her. You spend your \u201calone time\u201d doing what you want, on your own terms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only time you SHOULD respond to your woman\u2019s texts or voice mails is when she apologizes. When she starts begging you to come back, that\u2019s when you end your \u201cvacation,\u201d and come back to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then when you do come back to her, the first thing you do is this. <strong>You lay out new \u201cterms and conditions\u201d for the relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For instance, you can tell her that you\u2019ll only get back together with her if:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Number one, she starts respecting you as the leader of the relationship&#8230;<\/li><li>Number two, she does everything you tell her to do, without question&#8230;<\/li><li>And number three: If she\u2019d rather keep giving you her B.S., she can leave, because you have better things to do with your life.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Your \u201cterms and conditions\u201d will be up to you. And they should put you in firmly in the DOMINANT position in the relationship. Any less than that, and you\u2019ll be better off not coming back at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it\u2019s only when she agrees to your terms that you could reward her with affection and attention again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So make sure to execute the Reverse Gaslighting technique correctly. You\u2019ll find yourself in total control of your relationship. It\u2019s just as you should be, and it\u2019s just as she wants you to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that, my friend, is how to deal with gaslighting in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pretty good, huh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now here\u2019s the thing&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Reverse Gaslighting technique is a great cure for the problem. And yet, as the saying goes, prevention is always better than cure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, if you \u201cpassed\u201d her tests early on in the relationship, she\u2019d never gaslight you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you\u2019re lucky enough that the gaslighting hasn\u2019t gotten too bad yet, then I recommend a different technique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s called \u201c<strong>Fractionation<\/strong>.\u201d And it\u2019s the simplest, surest way to defeat a woman\u2019s mind games.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s simple because it uses nothing more than the words you say. Fractionation is a conversation technique \u2013 something ANYONE, including yourself, can master.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet it\u2019s so powerful because it makes women see you as the strongest, most dominant guy they\u2019ve ever met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when they feel that way towards you, their mind games drop down to a bare minimum, if not disappear entirely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How would you like to have a relationship where your woman NEVER played mind games on you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And in the unlikely times she DOES play a mind game on you, you handle it effortlessly. How does that strike you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If that sounds good to you, then you <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MUST<\/span> <\/strong>master Fractionation. It\u2019s the key.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that leads me to my little bonus for you&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sign up to the Online Masterclass on Mind Control.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In that Masterclass, my mentor Derek Rake will take over. He\u2019ll teach you everything you need to know about Fractionation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll learn how it works, how to use it, and real-world sample routines you can copy and try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a great deal you won\u2019t want to miss out on, so click on the link right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember: If a woman plays mind games on you, it means she likes you. And it means she desperately wants you to \u201cman up\u201d and dominate her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My advice? Give her what she needs. <a href=\"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/one-more-step\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"210\">Click this link<\/a> and join Derek\u2019s Online Masterclass now. Do it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you being &#8220;gaslighted&#8221; by your woman? Is she making you doubt yourself more and more over time? Or is she making you feel more and more guilty, or evil, or insignificant? Is she reducing you to a mere shell of what you used to be as a man? 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