{"id":279,"date":"2020-08-17T00:25:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-17T00:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/?p=279"},"modified":"2020-08-16T02:26:02","modified_gmt":"2020-08-16T02:26:02","slug":"how-to-make-a-relationship-last","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/how-to-make-a-relationship-last\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Make A Relationship Work (The MANTRA That Works Like Magic!)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Quick question! Are you in a failing relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have you tried everything, but nothing’s working?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you want to know how to make a relationship work?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you answered \u201cyes\u201d to those questions, then trust me… I know how you feel. You probably feel like the most useless guy in the world \u2013 like you can\u2019t do anything right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But that\u2019s NOT the worst part of the problem…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The worst part is that you have a real chance of losing your woman if you don’t do something fast. Makes sense, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now here’s the thing…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t guarantee your relationship will work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But you CAN put yourself in a win-win situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is… you can put yourself in a situation where, whether you make your relationship work or not… your life will still be the better for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now how exactly do you do that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Answer: By using a technique called “I’m the Prize.” And you’ll learn all about it in this short video.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you internalize this technique, suddenly everything becomes crystal clear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing in your love life will ever confuse or frustrate you anymore again. You\u2019ll know exactly what to say, and you\u2019ll know exactly what to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is super-valuable life skill you probably won\u2019t learn about anywhere else… so be sure to watch \u2018til the end of this video.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So how do you internalize the \u201cI\u2019m the Prize\u201d mantra?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It all starts with avoiding the single most pervasive mistake men make with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re trying and failing to make your relationship work… then you\u2019re very likely making this mistake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m about to show you what that mistake is. And trust me\u2026 it\u2019s easily the BIGGEST mistake that men make in relationships. You WILL want to know it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Now Here\u2019s The Biggest Mistake Men Make In Relationships.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The biggest mistake that even “smart” and “good” men make is this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Putting their woman on a pedestal.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These guys treat their woman like she\u2019s some prize to be won. And so they act according to that belief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, they focus on things that will make her happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mean, they focus on going with her preferences all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, they focus on making sure they NEVER offend or hurt her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In short, they make her their #1 priority in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You get the idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So here\u2019s the question:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do YOU do any of that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you do… then we\u2019ve just figured out exactly why your relationship isn\u2019t working out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s why:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women subconsciously HATE being treated like \u201cthe prize\u201d by their men.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They may LOOK and SOUND like they like it. And over the short-term, they might reward your subservient behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But over the long-term, they feel DISGUSTED.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They feel disgusted because, in order for them to love a man, they have to feel attracted to him first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And to feel attracted to a man, they have to RESPECT him first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It all starts with respect. It\u2019s true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mean, think about it. If a woman sees a man who grovels for her affection, bribes her for her attention, and basically acts like a \u201cslave\u201d she can order around… would she respect him?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And think about this… How would a woman feel if she realized, too late, that she had gotten into a relationship with a man she can\u2019t respect?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019d want to get out of that relationship, that\u2019s what!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NOW do you know why your relationship isn\u2019t working out?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You need to flip the script. You need to stop putting her on a pedestal. You need to stop treating her like a \u201cprize\u201d to be won.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, you should start adopting the mindset that says: \u201cI\u2019m the Prize.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m the Prize.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to make your relationship work, this is non-negotiable. You MUST see yourself as the Prize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And here\u2019s why.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you were the Prize in your relationship and not your woman, would you need her validation to be happy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Would you sacrifice your job, your hobbies, and your friends to make her happy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mean, would you give her absolutely anything she wants, no matter how unreasonable… just to make her happy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No way. You’re the Prize. SHE should chase YOUR validation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SHE should adjust to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SHE should follow your direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hope you get the picture by now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, it\u2019s easy to wonder: \u201cIsn\u2019t that sexist?\u201d or \u201cIsn\u2019t that abusive?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The answer is no. After all, it wasn\u2019t sexist or abusive when SHE was doing it to you, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact… and here\u2019s what so many men never realize in their lives… women actually LOVE men who see themselves as the \u201cPrize.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because women find it hard NOT to respect men who have that kind of confidence and direction in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And as you already know, respect leads to attraction… and attraction leads to love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when she loves you, she\u2019s going to do everything she can to \u201cwin\u201d you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When your woman works so hard to make YOU happy, will the relationship work out?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s going to be so much easier, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, I’m about to show you how exactly you should act when you’re “the Prize.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now here\u2019s how to be the Prize in your relationship.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

First, get used to the idea that she might leave you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, I know what you might be thinking. I mean, you want your relationship work out, and now I\u2019m telling you to accept the possibility of losing her?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think about this for a moment…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you need her in your life to be happy… that means she\u2019s the prize, and not you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Which, if you\u2019ll notice, is what started this whole mess in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll need to flip the script, fast. She needs to realize she does NOT have you wrapped around her little finger… and that you can leave her anytime you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are three ways you can make her realize YOU\u2019RE the prize, and not her:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Number one: Find a different top priority for your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It could be your career, or your business, or your personal mission in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anything but her. (Anything but any woman, for that matter.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At best, she should be your second priority in life… and no higher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Number two: Disappear for a while.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cut off all contact with your woman for a few days. Take a mini-vacation, get some alone time, whatever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she demands you to reply to your texts or come back, don\u2019t comply. Come back on your own terms, not hers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will teach you to love yourself more than you love her… and that\u2019s SO important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And number three: Start meeting other women.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, if this suggestion makes you worry about hurting or offending your woman… then that means she\u2019s still a \u201cprize\u201d to you. Not good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Besides, you don\u2019t need to DATE these new women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But you DO need to meet new women for two reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  • First, you need to know there are women out there who WILL respect you for who you are…<\/li>
  • And second, your woman needs to see she\u2019s replaceable… which she is.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    Through it all, you send the message loud and clear: \u201cI\u2019m the Prize.\u201d It\u2019s your way or the highway. She can take you or she can leave you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The result?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Your newfound self-respect will make your woman start respecting you. And as long as you keep it up, you\u2019ll reawaken her attraction for you… she\u2019ll fall back in love with you… and your relationship starts working again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Now, you might be wondering: \u201cBut what if she leaves me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So, here’s the answer: That would be her loss. Let her go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Remember, you\u2019re the Prize. There will be many, many other women out there who will see you as such.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Simply put, being the Prize is how you make a relationship work for the long-term.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    And besides: Your woman will likely realize she just left a great guy in you, and come back to you soon enough. Only this time, you\u2019ll only get back with her if she agrees to your \u201cterms\u201d for your new relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    That\u2019s how being the Prize puts you in a win-win situation. Even if your relationship won\u2019t work, your self-confidence will make sure the next one will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Now here\u2019s the thing…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    As powerful and life-changing \u201cBeing the Prize\u201d is… it\u2019s only a mere application of an even more powerful technique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    That technique is called \u201cFractionation.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    What is Fractionation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Well, Fractionation is a Mind Control technique taught to me by my friend and mentor, Derek Rake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    And if you don\u2019t know who Derek Rake is… he\u2019s the first and only coach who has adapted Mind Control into the dating and relationships sphere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mind Control uses psychology and hypnotism to get you the results you want with women. And Fractionation is one of the most powerful Mind Control techniques ever developed… if not THE most powerful. Believe me because it\u2019s true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Now here\u2019s the deal…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mind Control takes years to master. But Fractionation can be mastered in ONE DAY. Trust me on this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    So, if you want complete control over your love life… and if you only had time to learn ONE Mind Control technique… it would have to be THIS one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    In just a few moments, a link will come up inside this video.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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