{"id":378,"date":"2020-08-25T17:19:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-25T09:19:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/?p=378"},"modified":"2020-08-25T17:19:59","modified_gmt":"2020-08-25T09:19:59","slug":"how-to-get-over-infidelity-pain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/how-to-get-over-infidelity-pain\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Get Over An Affair (&#8220;KMC BLUEPRINT&#8221;)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\"><strong>Want to learn how to get over an affair?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe your wife left you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or perhaps your wife cheated on you and is sorry for it, but you can&#8217;t look at her the same way again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How do you get over a nightmare like that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hey, I sympathize. Infidelity is one of the most painful betrayals a man can ever feel in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet make no mistake. If you don&#8217;t get over the affair now, it&#8217;ll haunt you for the rest of your life, and you&#8217;ll never find happiness in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, you might be thinking: <em>&#8220;But Fredo, I&#8217;ve tried to get over it. Over and over. Nothing&#8217;s working!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, that\u2019s okay \u2013 because, in this video, I\u2019ll teach you how to get over an affair once and for all. And I\u2019m serious, by the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"\ud83d\udd34 How To Get Over An Affair (&quot;KMC BLUEPRINT&quot;)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/o8rNxy0FwPc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>So where do we start?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting over an affair starts with knowing the root of the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean, let\u2019s face it. You\u2019re stuck. No doubt about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you\u2019re stuck because there\u2019s a particular \u201cMENTAL MISMATCH\u201d in your mind right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That mismatch is the root of the problem. And if you want to get over an affair, you MUST get rid of this first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>So let me tell you about this big mental mismatch.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This was first introduced to me by the mentalist and dating coach, Derek Rake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When he first told me about it, it blew my mind. It was so simple, yet so true at the same time. And I thought:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If more men knew about this mental mismatch, it would solve SO MANY of their problems in the dating game.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you\u2019ve been trying and failing to get over your wife\u2019s affair, here\u2019s the root of your problem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>You have a mismatch in EXPECTATIONS.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s like this&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In your mind, you have a certain \u201cblueprint\u201d of how your marriage \u201cshould\u201d play out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And unfortunately, your wife\u2019s affair shattered this blueprint. There is now a mismatch in your mind. Your reality does not at all match your expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet it gets worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The REAL problem is that right now, you\u2019re still CLINGING to the \u201cblueprint\u201d in your mind. Without even knowing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re still EXPECTING your marriage to play out well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet every single time you think of your wife, your wife experiences the mismatch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So since your mind is so unbalanced and uncertain, it\u2019s unable to move forward. It\u2019s fixated on the mismatch, and it will remain stuck until you do something. And fast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So here\u2019s what you should do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to change your life, you got to change your \u201cblueprint\u201d first. And the fastest way to do that is by adopting what I call the \u201cKMC Blueprint.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what\u2019s that all about?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The KMC Blueprint is a combination of personal beliefs and actions that will do two things for you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>First, it will \u201caffair-proof\u201d the relationships you have.<\/li><li>And secondly, it can even REVERSE the effects of the affair on your marriage. Your wife will spend the rest of her life trying to make it up to you. She\u2019ll realize she made a huge mistake and won\u2019t ever risk losing you again.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And the best part? The KMC Blueprint is something you can adopt today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Here\u2019s how the KMC Blueprint works.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cKMC\u201d stands for \u201cKing of My Castle.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The mindset goes like this: In your marriage and household, you\u2019re the King. 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Instead, you make her FEEL it by actually breaking up with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You tell her: \u201cYou know what? I\u2019m tired. Let\u2019s take a time out. Spend time away from each other, do other things, meet other people. Then we see each other after a month or two and decide what to do next.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And no matter what she says, you do it anyway. You take a month or two away from each other, then you come back together \u2013 simple as that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you can pull it off, she\u2019ll know for a fact that you ARE a dominant guy. And she\u2019ll feel MADLY attracted to you \u2013 so much that she\u2019ll never even think about leaving you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the KMC Blueprint in a nutshell. 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