{"id":411,"date":"2020-08-28T16:24:03","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T08:24:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/?p=411"},"modified":"2020-08-28T16:24:03","modified_gmt":"2020-08-28T08:24:03","slug":"my-relationship-sucks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/my-relationship-sucks\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;My Relationship Sucks!&#8221; Un-suck it with &#8220;S.T.S.A&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\"><strong>&#8220;Fredo, my relationship sucks! What should I do?&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t know how many times I&#8217;ve been asked this question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It happens a lot, which is why I&#8217;m writing this article to once and for all lay out my definitive answer to this question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Okay, so your relationship sucks. 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And to a woman, this is an extremely stressful situation.<\/li><li>Secondly, her bad behavior is an instinctive attempt to make you \u201cman up.\u201d She wants you to dominate her and start leading the relationship like she needs you to.<\/li><li>And thirdly, she also knows that when she has to TELL you to man up and lead the relationship, it\u2019s game over. She has established, beyond any doubt, that you\u2019re NOT dominant. And her only recourse is to leave you.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet that\u2019s not all. Here\u2019s the kicker: Most of this happens UNCONSCIOUSLY. Your woman doesn\u2019t even know about any of these \u2013 she just FEELS it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And to any healthy woman, what she FEELS is all that matters to her. And so she acts \u2013 or reacts \u2013 accordingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what should you do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep in mind: The key is DOMINANCE. If you want a relationship to NOT suck, then its leader has to be you. 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