{"id":789,"date":"2020-12-05T21:13:26","date_gmt":"2020-12-05T13:13:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/?p=789"},"modified":"2022-03-17T07:22:42","modified_gmt":"2022-03-16T23:22:42","slug":"is-she-playing-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/is-she-playing-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Is She Playing Me Or Just Scared?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u201cIs she playing me, or just scared?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is one of the most common questions I get from my beloved FredoHill.com readers, and it\u2019s the question I\u2019ll be answering today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s a question every guy asks after a while. I mean, you\u2019ve wondered the same thing in the past, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’re building a friendship with a new girl, and she seems interested in you, too. And yet it’s like she’s playing “hard to get.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Like she’s stringing you along, daring you to make a move while acting uninterested.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s confusing and maddening at the same time, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So let\u2019s answer that question again. Is she playing you? Or is she just scared and playing it safe?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m about to explain why virtually EVERY woman acts this way when a good guy like you starts showing interest in her.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

By the end of this article, you\u2019ll know exactly why she\u2019s treating you that way. And you\u2019ll realize it makes perfect sense for her to act like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

More importantly, you\u2019ll know what to do next. You\u2019ll learn how to make her fall in love with you, even if she\u2019s playing you right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Two Types of Players<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

So why is she acting like she\u2019s playing you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all because she\u2019s scared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yup, you guessed it right. She\u2019s scared. And she has good reason to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPlaying hard-to-get\u201d is every woman\u2019s defense mechanism against players. And there are a lot of them out there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are two types of players women watch out for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first type of player is the guy who just wants one-night-stand encounters. <\/strong>And every smart woman is careful not to give in too easily to these kinds of men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why? Simple \u2013 because her reputation is at risk. Every smart woman\u2019s \u201cend goal\u201d for the dating game is to find a strong, good husband who loves her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And what happens if her reputation is ruined because people knew she gave in to players too easily? Her chances of finding that kind of good man drop dramatically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And so she acts very, very hard-to-get around those players.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s the first kind of player. The second type is slightly different.<\/strong> This is the guy who PRETENDS<\/em> he\u2019s a good, husband-material type of man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019s the type who TRICKS women into falling in love with him. And then he pumps and dumps them. Lots of these pricks around, huh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And so she needs to protect herself from these guys. She\u2019ll play with him for a few months. If he\u2019s really just a player and not the real deal, he\u2019ll lose interest and quit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that, my friend, is why women play with men who love them. It\u2019s their first line of defense. And it\u2019s all for her end goal of a happy, lifelong marriage with a guy who truly loves her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you understand now? It all makes sense, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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