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Fredo, she says she needs space. What should I do?”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many of my readers ask me this very question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you’re wondering the same thing, then this is for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know, I know. When your woman says she needs space, it\u2019s shocking. And it\u2019s confusing, too, because you don’t know just what the heck is going on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Is she feeling suffocated in your relationship? Are you being a bad lover? Is she seeing someone else?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, let’s find out, shall we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We’ll start with the most important part: Knowing WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS when she says she needs “space.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you know what she really means, then it’s easy to know what to do next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

She Says She Needs Space (What Does It Mean?)<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When she says she needs space, it means she\u2019s having second thoughts about having you as her lover.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yup, you heard that right. It doesn\u2019t matter what she says her \u201creasons\u201d are. When she asks for \u201cspace,\u201d it means she wants to look around for other bachelors out there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she finds better options, she\u2019ll start planning her exit from your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If not, she\u2019ll come back to you. Though I wouldn’t hold my breath if I were you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s it. That’s how it works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you might be wondering: How can you be so sure, Fredo?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s very simple, really. If your woman was in love with you, she wouldn\u2019t EVER need space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she knew you were the best man in the world for her, she wouldn\u2019t have a reason to leave you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she felt it would be a HUGE mistake to leave you for another guy, she never would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And yet here she is, asking for some space. She wants to get away from you. She feels you’re not the best man for her. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Common sense, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think? Do you agree that if your woman wants space, it means she secretly wants to start looking around?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In any case, you\u2019re facing a real challenge now. How do you make her come back to you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And not just that \u2013 after you make her come back, how do you make her stay for good?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The answer is clear. You must make her FEEL you\u2019re the absolute best guy she could ever hope to have<\/span>. You must make it crystal clear to her that you, and no other guy, are \u201cthe one\u201d for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And how exactly do you do that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, I recommend you use a technique called the \u201cPressure Flip.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s the fastest and most powerful way to make her realize she made a mistake by ever leaving you. And she\u2019ll come back to you and love you more than ever before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The “Pressure Flip” is an example of reverse psychology in relationships<\/a> – you’ll exploit a little-known flaw in the female psyche to turn things around. And you’re going to learn this important technique in this guide today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sound good?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before I teach you how to use the \u201cPressure Flip\u201d technique, I need to ask you a question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did you learn something new about women and how they think in this article so far?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you did, then continue reading.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The “Pressure Flip”<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The “Pressure Flip” was first developed by the Shogun Method community.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shogun Method is an online community of men around the world. And we Shoguns study the use of deep psychology in dating and relationships. (Read my Shogun Method review here<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the \u201cPressure Flip\u201d technique is one of our more powerful techniques. It\u2019s specifically designed to make women think twice about leaving you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s how the Pressure Flip technique works. It has four steps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First, you tell her you need space too<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yup, you heard that right. You walk up to her and say: \u201cI\u2019ve been thinking about what you said. And I think you\u2019re right. I think we both need some space.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will surprise her. And she\u2019ll start to wonder the same things you did. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019ll think: \u201cIs he feeling suffocated? Am I not good enough for him? Or was he already seeing another woman, and I just gave him an excuse to see her more?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That state of confusion is important. It\u2019ll make her second-guess her decision to leave you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next, the second step is to get some space between you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You spend three to four weeks away from each other. In the meantime, you spend your free time doing whatever you want. You can take a vacation, you can touch base with your friends, you can meet other girls. It\u2019s the bachelor\u2019s life again, for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, when she sees or hears you having fun without her, she\u2019ll panic. And that\u2019s why she\u2019s likely to contact you before the three or four weeks are over. She\u2019ll ask to get back together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you do then? The third step is to tell her you\u2019ll think about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yup, you heard THAT right, too. Make her wonder if you were actually BETTER OFF without her. Again, she\u2019s going to panic. She might put up a little drama, apologize, or ask if you\u2019re sure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s where the last step of the Pressure Flip technique comes in. Now, you agree to get back together<\/strong>. And then you proceed to give her twice the amount of affection you usually give.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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