{"id":986,"date":"2020-12-28T06:02:45","date_gmt":"2020-12-27T22:02:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/?p=986"},"modified":"2022-04-28T07:05:05","modified_gmt":"2022-04-27T23:05:05","slug":"toxic-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fredohill.com\/toxic-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Fix A Toxic Marriage (The Shogun Detox Trick)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Do you have a toxic wife?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you do, then let me tell you how to fix a toxic marriage the FOOLPROOF<\/span> way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First of all, let me just say \u2013 I know what you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mean, toxic relationships are bad. Toxic COMMITTED relationships are even worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, here\u2019s the bad news…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your marriage will only get worse over time. Unless you use the “detox” technique I’ll be telling you about today, that is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

The 50% Conundrum<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The 50% Conundrum is a term we at my brothers at the Shogun Method community coined just recently.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And in case you haven\u2019t heard of us before, Shogun Method is a global group of men who do one thing. And that is to study the use of deep psychology to solve our relationship problems. We are practitioners of Shogun Method (which I have reviewed here<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, to date, nearly 90% of Shoguns \u2013 that\u2019s what we call ourselves \u2013 end up in great marriages. Our relationships are strong, our wives are supportive, and our households are happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What about the other 5-10%? Sadly, they made the mistake of marrying a truly \u201ccrazy\u201d woman. And when I say crazy, I mean she had incredibly toxic habits no one could fix.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It squared with the oft-cited statistic that 5-10% of women are mentally unfit for marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Needless to say, these Shoguns had to let their toxic wives go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still \u2013 on the whole, a 90% success rate? That\u2019s something to be proud of, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And yet, at the same time, we\u2019ve wondered. In modern society, a whopping 50% of marriages eventually get so toxic that they break up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So we thought: Does that mean 50% of women are too toxic for marriage? That can\u2019t be right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s when we coined the term. \u201cThe 50% Conundrum.\u201d And so we studied, experimented, and compared notes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know what we found?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We found that these marriages \u2013 the 50% that fail \u2013 have one ROOT<\/span> problem at its core.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not incompatibility. It\u2019s not immaturity. It\u2019s not \u201cirreconcilable differences.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What was the root problem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here it is. It was a downward spiral that led to the loss of attraction.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Put simply, one thing happened after another in these marriages. And these little things slowly eroded the attraction the wife had for her husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s this severe lack of attraction that causes the toxicity in her. There’s also a bit of reverse psychology<\/a> in play, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ironically, she\u2019s toxic because she wants one thing. And that is to make you \u201cman up,\u201d take charge, and make her feel attracted to you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And you know what\u2019s the most incredible part? She doesn\u2019t even know she\u2019s doing it.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She really doesn\u2019t. It\u2019s a reflex that women in relationships have. The moment you don\u2019t act like the strong, dominant leader you promised to be, her toxic mode kicks in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s all to make you \u201cman up.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s pretty crazy, but that\u2019s science for you. Facts can be crazier and stranger than fiction sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Makes sense, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, regardless, that brings us to the obvious next question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How do you fix a toxic marriage?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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