Don’t you just hate awkward silence with women?
Who doesn’t? Everyone hates the feeling where your mind panics and goes, “Omigosh — I gotta say something!”
If you feel that way, then let me tell you this: It’s FINE. It’s a natural response.
Men like you and me are wired to want other people, especially women, to like us.
And awkward silences will no doubt make them like us less. They’ll think, “Okaaay… this guy has absolutely nothing to talk about. I’m out.”
Now, that begs the question: CAN awkward silences be avoided with women?
Is it possible to have a conversation with a woman and NEVER run into an awkward moment?
Thankfully, the answer is “yes.” This video will teach you exactly how to avoid awkward silence with a woman. And this especially matters if you’re romantically interested in her.
And the first thing you got to do is to avoid ONE PARTICULAR MISTAKE.
It’s crucially important to avoid this mistake. It turns women off even worse than awkward silences.
And here’s the worst part. If you’re watching this video, chances are you’re already MAKING this mistake without even knowing it.
And so the first order of business is to STEER CLEAR THIS MISTAKE.
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Now here’s the CRITICAL mistake you’ve been making.
That critical mistake is WORRYING about awkward silences.
Didn’t see that coming, did you? It’s true, though.
Worrying about awkward silence is a mistake because, at its very core, it’s neediness.
That’s right – it’s neediness. You NEED her to like you and have a good conversation with you.
And that’s the bigger problem. Nothing turns women off faster than neediness.
Here’s how neediness plays out in a conversation with a woman you like…
First, you only talk about “safe” topics and express “politically correct” opinions.
Then, suddenly, you say something that knocks her off-balance:
- For instance, you might accidentally start talking about a controversial topic.
- Or you might let a politically-incorrect opinion slip out.
- Or worse, you mention something that makes her very uncomfortable.
Any of these things can cause an awkward silence to strike. And so she says, “Well, anywaaay…”
So what should you do in this situation?
The worst thing you can do is to visibly fumble to keep the conversation going. When she sees you fumbling to win back her approval, she’ll think: “Oh, I get it… this guy wants me to like him. I guess all his good manners were just to trick me. Time to plan my exit…”
So that’s what you should avoid doing. Don’t fumble to keep the conversation going.
What should you do instead?
If you asked Pickup Artist gurus, they’d tell you to simply change the topic. You switch to a new topic even if it’s completely unrelated to the previous one.
This CAN defuse the awkward silence, but it won’t lead you anywhere good. After all, she’s already turned off. Only three things can happen from here on…
- Either you turn her off EVEN MORE by saying another dumb thing…
- Or you make her feel EVEN MORE uncomfortable because she wants to leave and you’re not letting her.
And even if the ensuing conversation goes well, she might end up liking you again, but this time, only as a friend.
So merely changing the topic might defuse the awkward silence. It puts the friend zone as your best-case scenario, though. Not sure how good THAT will be.
So here’s my advice: First, let the conversation settle into the awkward silence if it has to. And second, changing the topic will probably only make things worse.
So instead, use a technique called the “Meaningful Silence.” If you want to know the best way how to avoid awkward silence with a woman, it’s to change the meaning of it.
So let me tell you about the Meaningful Silence technique.
“Meaningful Silence” is actually a Mind Control technique. It was developed by the only dating coach in the world who uses Mind Control – Derek Rake.
Derek teaches his clients to use the science of Mind Control instead of cheesy Pickup tricks. As a result, he has over 17,000 followers all over the world. I happen to be one of them.
Anyway, the Meaningful Silence does NOT try to break the awkward silence.
Instead, it uses the silence to its advantage.
Here’s how it works. When a silence strikes your conversation, awkward or not, you make eye contact with her.
You look at her in a way that tells her: “I know something about you, but I’m not telling.”
You could have narrowed eyes, or a half-smile on your face. You could even turn your face slightly away from her.
Whatever you do, you say nothing. You remain silent, and you maintain eye contact.
If anyone should break the silence or eye contact, it should be her.
She might get nervous, giggle, and say “What? What is it?”
If she does, you just shake your head and say, “Well, anywaaay…” and then you change the topic.
Did you notice what you just did in that example?
You made HER feel awkward, that’s what.
It may seem rude, but here’s what’s actually happening.
In those wordless few moments, two things happened:
- First, you demonstrated your confidence – that you’re completely unfazed by awkward silences…
- And secondly, you demonstrated your dominance. You showed how you’re in control of the conversation, not her.
Confidence and dominance. These two qualities are the OPPOSITE of neediness. And these qualities turn women ON, enough to make them forget the awkward silence before it.
Brilliant, huh? And it took you what, almost zero effort?
And yet it made a WORLD of difference for your lady.
That’s the power of the Meaningful Silence technique – and the power of Mind Control as a whole.
Now, speaking of Mind Control…
The Meaningful Silence technique works for one main reason. It puts your woman on an emotional rollercoaster.
And an emotional rollercoaster is a POWERFUL experience. It makes her drop what she’s doing and focus on you.
Now, most guys NEVER put women on emotional rollercoasters. That’s because rollercoasters don’t just have emotional HIGHS. They also have emotional LOWS. And most guys are too nice to ever give a woman an emotional low.
And that’s a pity, Women FALL IN LOVE with the man who gives them the most intense emotional rollercoasters.
Not the richest guy or the best-looking guy. And definitely not the guy who gives them the best conversations.
That’s why Mind Control works. It doesn’t make you look like the richest, best-looking, or most socially-skilled guy.
Instead, it makes women feel the most intense emotional rollercoasters. And as a direct result, they’ll feel more and more addicted to you.
So now, let me ask you THE question:
Do YOU want to be the kind of guy women naturally feel ADDICTED to?
If you do, then I got something special for you.
Sign up to the Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
There, Derek Rake will teach you the most powerful Mind Control technique of all.
That technique is called “Fractionation.” It gives women the same emotional rollercoaster that the “Meaningful Silence” does.
Except with Fractionation, the emotional thrill ride is about TEN TIMES more intense. Believe me because it’s true.
And the best part? Fractionation is a storytelling technique. All you need is to say the right words at the right time.
It’s incredibly simple.