Want to meet new women, but you don’t know how to talk to them?
Here are some of the best conversation starters with women you can use — and nope, they’re NOT what you might expect.
First of all, let me just say that you’re not alone. Millions of men around the world also DON’T know how to start a conversation with a new woman.
And if you’re scared to try, you’re ALSO not alone, especially if you live in the States. With the #MeToo movement, it’s scary and risky to approach women. One wrong move and you might end up in jail or go viral. Yeesh.
And yet if you DON’T approach women, you might end up single, lonely, and unhappy the rest of your life. And that’s just as bad, in my opinion.
So in this video, I’ll teach you the best conversation starters with women. Not only will you learn how to approach new girls, but you’ll also learn how to make them LIKE you.
Yup – we’re talking about making women feel that “love at first sight” feeling.
And that’s important – because if they feel attracted right off the bat, then she won’t care if you’re a stranger.
She’ll want to know more about you, too.
Sounds good? Great.
So first, let’s talk about the most important requirement of approaching women. And that is to know what women feel when you approach them.
Do they feel scared? Flattered? Confused? Glad?
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So What Do Women Feel When You Approach Them?
The answer to this question was given to me by Derek Rake – my coach and mentor.
Now, Derek is a Mind Control attraction coach. You may also know him as the founder of the famous Shogun Method.
What makes Derek different from the usual relationship gurus is this – he teaches men to understand the female mind completely. To him, mastery of the female mind is the key to leading successful relationships and marriages.
And one particular quirk of the female mind happens to be what he calls “Cognitive Modes.”
According to Derek, at any given moment, a woman is in one of two Cognitive Modes.
The first one is called “Cold Mode.” This is when she’s operating in a logical, rational, skeptical way. She’s using her left brain – she makes her decisions by analyzing her surroundings.
Meanwhile, the second one is called “Warm Mode.” This is when she’s in an imaginative, emotional, or curious state. She’s using her right brain, and she uses her feelings to make her decisions.
Now, why is this important?
Here’s why. When a strange man approaches them, women immediately go into “Cold Mode.” They’re skeptical and defensive.
If you tried to start a conversation with a woman in Cold Mode, she would stay closed and suspicious. And that’s no good.
Your conversation goes nowhere, and she tries to get away from you as quickly as possible.
Now, you’ve probably experienced that before. Or not. Have you ever approached a pretty woman out of nowhere? How did she react? Write “cold” or “warm” in the comments to share your story.
Now that brings us to the obvious question. How do you approach a woman and put her in “Warm Mode” at the same time?
That’s easy. I strongly recommend you use what I call the “Soulmate Sequence.” It’s something that Derek taught me in Shogun Method, and it works like gangbusters!
So how does the “Soulmate Sequence” work?
Well, ever met a girl you instantly gelled with because you had similar interests, values, or goals in life?
Ever felt like she was your “soulmate” – like you were destined for each other?
That’s what the Soulmate Sequence will make her feel towards you. She’ll feel like you were destined for each other – even if she’s just met you.
Now here’s how the Soulmate Sequence works.
The first step is to make her curious about you.
And to do that, you approach her with a curiosity-spiking line like:
- “Excuse me, but…”
- “Hey, sorry to bother you, but…”
- “Hi, can you help me?”
The second step is to wait for her to reply. An inquisitive stare, a “yes,” or even a “hm?” is a good sign. It tells you she’s in a curious state of mind – “Warm” – instead of skeptical or “Cold.”
After she gives you a reply, you make a statement or ask a question that’s relevant to your shared situation.
- For instance, if she’s in a bookshop browsing the non-fiction section, you can say: “…are you a fan of True Crime, too?”
- Of if she’s wearing an African-looking scarf, you can ask: “…I really have to ask you about your scarf. Is that Ghanian?”
- Also, you can’t go wrong with a simple: “Can I ask you a question?”
You get the idea, right?
Now, it doesn’t even matter what your question is, as long as it’s relevant to the situation. Again, the key is to put her in “Warm Mode.” And with this little conversation starter, you turn her skepticism into curiosity. A good first step.
So what’s the second step?
It’s to get her number.
Now, of course, you don’t ask for her number out of the blue. That’s a fast way to make her switch back to “Cold Mode.”
Instead, you need to carry a conversation where you ask her a few questions in succession. And here’s the key: She needs to answer most, if not all, of your questions with a “Yes.”
Here’s an example. Let’s say you met her at the bookstore, and you’ve asked her: “Can I ask you a question?”
And let’s say she said “Yes.”
You then ask something like: “I’m looking for something new to read – can you give me a recommendation?”
Then she might say: “Yeah, sure – how about True Crime?”
And you say: “True Crime? I’ve never tried it actually. Do you like True Crime?”
And she says: “Yeah, I sure do.”
And you say: “That’s great – can you suggest something on this shelf for a beginner like me?”
And she says: “Yeah, how about this one…”
You get the idea, right?
Now, you might be asking: “What’s with all the ‘Yes’ questions?”
Here’s why: In the end, you’ll ask for her number or e-mail address.
And the more times she said “Yes” during your conversation, the more likely she’ll give you her contact info.
Yup, I’m not even kidding. It’s a persuasion trick called “Yes Ladders,” and it works like a charm with women.
You might ask for her number this way:
“Hey, thanks for the help. I’m gonna get some coffee now. We should totally stay in touch – give me your number or email?”
If you ran the Soulmate Sequence correctly, you’ll at least get her contact information.
If it went perfectly well, she might ask: “Where are you headed again?”
To which you can answer: “To the cafe. Hey, join me, why don’t you? Give me your number there.”
Congratulations. Not only have you started a conversation with a woman, but you’ve scored your first date in the same stroke. Brilliant.
With the Soulmate Sequence, you’ll undoubtedly make lots of new female friends.
Now, that leads to an even bigger question to answer: What if you want to be more than friends with one of them?
Then the Soulmate Sequence won’t be enough. No matter how much she likes you, her attraction will fade away over time. And that’s a shame.
So if you want to start a real relationship with her, you’ll need a different Mind Control tactic. One that will make her completely ADDICTED to you for life.
Is there even such a technique?
Guess what – there sure is.
It’s called the Fractionation technique.
Like the Soulmate Sequence, it’s a conversation technique. Only this time, your tactic isn’t to get her curious and make her say “Yes” to you.
Now, it’s to trigger her brain’s addiction centers. You’re going to make her hooked on you like a drug.
And when you do that, then starting and maintaining a relationship becomes effortless.
And the best part? You can use Fractionation on ANY woman you want, ANYTIME you want, ANYWHERE you want…
And you’ll never have to worry about #MeToo and its minions.
Fractionation is one of the most perfect dating tools you could ever have. It could be the “missing piece” in your toolkit, and the solution to all your dating fears.
And it can be yours TODAY.
Just click this link on your screen right now. It’ll take you to a special Online Masterclass where you’ll learn all about Fractionation.
So click the link, join today, and start using Fractionation on women tomorrow. Do it.