Do you have a taste for older women? Yes? Then guess what? You’ll love this article.. I can almost guarantee it. Today, you’ll learn how to be a Cougar Trapper–the guy that older women can’t resist.
Yup, they really are something, aren’t they? Older women are so sexy, so confident, and so hungry for affection…
…and yet few of these wonderful females will ever show affection to a younger guy.
Why? The reason is simple… it’s because it’s a social taboo.
In many parts of the world, cougars—or women who get into relationships with younger men—are frowned upon.
And so, even if an older woman likes younger men and craves their attention, she’ll think twice about dating you.
Why? Because she knows the damage it can do to her reputation. And guess what? To a woman, reputation is everything.
And that’s the reason it’s so, so hard to seduce older women. And if you approach them like you approach other women, you won’t find much success with them. It’s true.
Meanwhile, if you follow the Cougar Trapper method, then you’ll do much better. You’ll open the doors to a strong, happy relationship with a beautiful older woman. And not only that… she’ll be so in love with you she won’t give a shit what others think.
Here’s the first step to becoming a Cougar Trapper.
Most important of all, you must understand what older women want in a man.
And this might surprise you: It’s quite the opposite of what women your age want. This is why so many men mess up their approach with older women.
Think about it for a moment. What do women your age want in a man?
They want strong, dominant, capable men—right?
Correct.
And guess what? Older women don’t want that.
They find overconfident, alpha-type men… boring.
Why? Simply because in their years, they’ve seen enough men who were “all talk but no walk.” And so when you try to play the strong, dominant card on them, they think: “Oh, great… not another one.”
Oops.
Instead, older women hunger after one thing most of all: Significance. They desperately want to feel needed.
And here’s why…
As a woman ages, she becomes less attractive and desirable. In the dating game, more and more men ignore her in favor of younger, sexier, more beautiful women…
…and guess what? That’s super depressing for her.
What’s the cure for that? Well, it’s not attention nor a quick meaningless fling.
Instead, the cure is to feel significant. She wants to mean something to a man.
And when you’re much younger than she is, that means one thing. She needs to feel like a mother to you.
That, my friend, is the secret. If you want an older woman to fall in love with you, your relationship must make her feel significant. She needs to feel as needed as a mother is.
I know that can sound pretty twisted to some, but trust me. That’s how the psyche of a cougar works.
And that’s what the first step in the Cougar Trapping Method… to understand how she wants to mother you.
So, here comes the second step in the Cougar Trapper Method. Here, you’ll learn how to let a cougar play her role to mother you.
How do you do that?
Well, the secret is in something psychologists call the Benjamin Franklin Effect.
It’s named after the Founding Father who first noted this strange phenomenon:
“The more someone does things for you, the more she likes you.”
Weird, right? And yet it’s been proven to work repeatedly. The more you get someone to invest their time and energy in you, the more they like you.
And guess what? That’s especially true when dating older women.
The more she invests in you, the more she feels needed. She gets that significance she so desperately craves—it’ll feel like a cool drink when she’s dying of thirst.
More importantly, as she invests in you, her fondness and trust grows. It’s human nature—the more you make her feel good, the more she’ll feel the urge to return the favor.
And that, my friend, is when the door to romance opens with an older woman.
Now, that leaves us with the obvious question:
How exactly do you make an older woman invest in you?
I’ll share with you two techniques that have always worked for me. The first one is this: Ask for advice.
For instance, you can ask her things like, “What do you do if…” And you tell her your dilemma.
Or you can say: “Have you ever…”, and then tell her about something unfortunate that happened to you.
Most likely, she’ll answer “yes,” and she’ll tell you a story or two about how she dealt with similar problems. Then she might give you some advice—which will be her precious investment in you.
See how it works?
Also, you can tell her an emotionally charged problem you have or had, then ask for her opinion about it.
For instance, you can tell her about how your boss abused your kindness in the past.
You can also tell her about how your relatives bullied you when you tried to do things your way.
Think of those little hurts you’ve been harboring for a while, tell her about it, then ask for her opinion. That’s another effective way to make her invest in you.
Now, here’s the key…
It’s one thing to get her to invest in you, but it’s another thing to get her emotionally attached to you. You must keep her investing in you until she starts asking for updates.
When she asks stuff like:
“So, did you take my advice?”
…or,
“Hey, any updates about that problem you have?”
…then that’s the sign. She’s emotionally attached to you, congratulations.
And when you see that sign, guess what? You absolutely must move on to the third step of the Cougar Trapper method.
Here’s why: If you don’t move to the last step, you’ll get typecast as the “baby boy” in her life. And that means she’llfeel nothing romantic towards you.
That’s why you must cross the line from being her baby boy to becoming her lover.
Now, here’s the third and final step of the Cougar Trapper Method.
We call the third step the Pull Back. It’s what will make her stop seeing you as her “baby boy” and see you as her next potential boyfriend.
Why is it called that? It’s simply because you pull back on asking her for advice, help, and guidance. It’s almost as though the baby boy is growing up and needing his mom less.
And that’s going to throw her into a slight panic, forcing her to redouble her investment in you. It’s all to keep from losing you.
And yet that’s not all. Aside from pulling back, you’ll also need to do one more thing:
Introduce taboo into the relationship.
Listen to me and pay attention because this is critical!
This combination—her increased investment and the sense of taboo—is what will push her over the edge.
So how exactly do you do this?
I recommend starting with some light flirting. Start teasing, hinting, and talking about romantic topics.
And this is where your Shogun Method knowledge, if you have it, comes useful. Pile on the anchoring and Intrigue Pings like any Shogun would.
For instance, you can say:
“If you’re gonna date again, find someone who can keep a secret. At least for a while,” while subtly pointing at yourself.
Or, you can say something like:
“I think you deserve a guy who respects you. Even if you’re different from each other,” while motioning your hand between you and her.
This is a covert tactic that Shogun Method practitioners use and so if you’re one, you know what’s going on here.
And that’s not all. You’ll know you’re doing it right when she starts saying things like:
- “Are we really just friends?” Or,
- “Do you think I’m beautiful?” Or, even
- “It’s been a long time since I last felt loved…”
Well, guess what? Those are clear signs she’s into you, and she’s hoping you’ll make a move. And that’s when you seal the deal. Schedule a proper date or spend the rest of the night together.
And in the morning, tell her: “Good morning, girlfriend.”
And that, my friend, is how you become a full-fledged Cougar Trapper.
And even then, you’re not quite done yet…
Here’s the last challenge when seducing an older woman:
She can, and will, drop you like a hot potato the moment she feels her reputation is in danger.
For instance, what if her friends start talking about her dating habits? She won’t hesitate to throw you under the bus to save herself, that’s what. Remember, reputation is everything to a woman…
…unless, of course, she’s committed to you.
And that won’t happen unless she’s totally, completely addicted to you.
So, to make sure you’ll get your happily ever after with her, I recommend you master one last technique.
It’s the cornerstone of Shogun Method, and it’s called Fractionation. And if you’ve been following me for a while, then you probably know how it works.
And yet if you don’t, here’s what Fractionation does–
It triggers the addiction mechanisms in the brain, making her feel as hooked on you as she’d be to shopping.
I’d need to warn you, though. You need to perform Fractionation with special care and precision. Otherwise, you’ll turn her off or drive her crazy—so spare her.
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