In this short article, I’m going to share with you four surprising insights about love and women as I learned from Shogun Method. I know how controversial Shogun Method is, and so I gotta warn you… this article might just trigger those who are thin-skinned and easily triggered. So, proceed only if you’ve got an open mind about this stuff.
Ready? If you are, then let’s go!
Insight Number One: Women can only love out of respect.
Let’s be real here. I mean, we all like to deal with smart and strong people that we can respect. I mean, imagine having a stupid boss who knows jack shit about what you do. It’s hard to take him seriously, right?
Well, guess what? It’s the same with women. I mean, it makes total sense if you think about it. If she doesn’t respect you, she can’t love you. In fact, that’s the number one reason guys get dumped. All breakups start from a single point–when a guy loses the respect of his girl. With the respect gone, the relationship ends, and he’s fucked.
So, here’s the key insight. Never seek a woman’s love. Seek her respect instead. Because once she respects you, it’s easy to make her fall in love with you. Take it from us Shoguns. If a woman doesn’t respect you, she can’t love you, plain and simple.
Insight Number Two: Women desire to control men, but they desire uncontrollable men more.
In Shogun Method, Derek Rake has a theory he calls the Paradox of Female Desire. What’s this paradox? Well, it’s this. Every woman desires to control her man. But when she gets to control, she loses her desire for him. Strange, right?
Men want sex, but women want commitment. Just as some men want to bang multiple women without commitment, some women want multiple men to commit without giving them sex. That’s the difference between how men and women approach relationships.
So, here’s the thing to understand. Your woman will try to tie you down and secure your commitment. But guess what? The more committed a man is to a woman, the less sexual desire she feels for him. And that’s how relationships go stale over time… because the woman no longer feels the danger of losing him. Interestingly, it’s this feeling of danger that gives a woman sexual arousal. In fact, a woman is most aroused when her man is about to dump her. It’s weird, but true!
OK, so how do you put this insight into practical use? It’s easy… be uncontrollable. You must keep her on her toes all the time, always wondering what’s around the corner. In Shogun Method, we call this effect Fractionation. To learn how to fractionate a woman, sign up for the Fractionation Online Masterclass. Go to fractionation.org and register. It’s free, so go do it.
Insight Number Three: Women fall in love in a predictable, straight line.
If you ask a woman about how she fell in love, she’ll probably say, “I don’t know. It just happened.” Every Shogun knows that’s horseshit. How women fall in love is totally predictable. In fact, you can map the path every woman takes in a relationship and it’s 100% the same for every one of them. This insight is super amazing if you think about it. I mean, imagine having a treasure map with a step-by-step pathway to conquer any woman you want. What are you going to do with that map?
Well, guess what? This map exists for real, and it’s what us Shoguns call the IRAE Model. What’s IRAE? Well, it’s the abbreviation of the four stages every woman goes through when falling in love with a man, and here they are–
One, the Intrigue stage; or when you catch and capture her attention;
Two, the Rapport stage; or when you get her to like you;
Three, the Attraction stage; or when you get her to develop sexual desires for you, and finally,
Four, the Enslavement stage, or when you secure her devotion for you for a lifetime.
Interesting, right?
Now, here’s the thing. The IRAE Model is the secret sauce of Shogun Method and I can’t tell you more without pissing off my brother Shoguns. To learn about the IRAE Model, visit iraemodel.com and get your free book.
And finally–
Insight Number Four: Emotional addiction is stronger than love.
The final stage of the IRAE Model is Enslavement. Now, many feel offended by this word, but to me, it’s simply Derek Rake’s way to provoke people into paying attention to his incendiary ideas. To many Shoguns, Enslavement is simply a term for emotional addiction, nothing more.
The truth is that love is fragile as hell, and your woman may fall out of love with you any time. Remember… all it takes for a relationship to break is that she loses respect for you. And that’s why your endgame should be “love”, but emotional addiction. You want her to need you like she needs water to drink, food to eat and air to breathe. Because when she’s addicted to you, she can’t quit you, right?
So, take it from me–you want emotional addiction, not love. Few can accept this, but if you’re one of the few who can, then Shogun Method will show you the way. If you’re ready, visit ShogunMethod.com now.