Are you being “gaslighted” by your woman?
Is she making you doubt yourself more and more over time?
Or is she making you feel more and more guilty, or evil, or insignificant?
Is she reducing you to a mere shell of what you used to be as a man?
If so, then yes – she’s gaslighting you.
And if you keep allowing her to, it’s going to continue.
Trust me – when your woman gaslights you, there’s no good outcome. In the end, your relationship will fail – either she leaves, or you will.
The good news?
Then this article will answer all your questions and more.
You’re about to learn exactly WHY she’s gaslighting you.
You’re also about to find out why most men don’t know how to deal with gaslighting in a relationship.
And later in this article, you’ll also learn how to make the gaslighting stop for good.
Let’s start with the biggest question of all: WHY is she gaslighting you in the first place?
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How To Stop Gaslighting In A Relationship
So let me explain Gaslighting by telling you its history.
I first learned about gaslighting from my mentor, the dating coach Derek Rake.
Unlike most other dating coaches, Derek doesn’t teach his students Pickup. Instead, he teaches them how to understand the female mind completely. He teaches men about women’s motivations, tactics, and deepest needs.
And as it happens, gaslighting is one of the ways women pursue their DEEPEST NEEDS.
Let me explain…
You remember all those mind games women played on you in the past?
They played hard-to-get… or they were hot-and-cold… or they sent you mixed signals… and so on.
Gaslighting is exactly like that. It’s a mind game. And it’s probably the most EXTREME kind of mind game a woman can play on you.
And that brings us to the question: WHY do women play mind games on the men they love?
Here’s the answer. And it’s something most men NEVER figure out in their lives.
Women play mind games on us because it’s their way of TESTING us.
For what, you ask?
They’re testing us to see if we’d make good, strong partners.
That is – they’re testing us to see how strong and dominant we are.
This is instinctive, by the way. Most times, women don’t even KNOW they’re testing for strength and dominance.
It’s just that deep in their two-million-year-old brains, they know. Strength and dominance are the most important traits in the man they’ll be committing to.
Now, when it comes to mind games, you LOSE the game when you react to them in a weak or needy way.
A few examples of weak and needy responses include the following.
- It’s when you get angry.
- Or when you get offended.
- It’s also when you withdraw and avoid her.
- And it’s when you comply with all her demands like a whipped puppy.
When you react to her mind games in these weak and needy ways, then she knows. You’re not a strong, dominant guy… and so she leaves you and moves on to other guys.
However, in a committed relationship, she CAN’T move on to other guys. She’s stuck with you.
And so she keeps playing her mind games on you, hoping you’d “man up” and show your strength and dominance.
Unfortunately, when you react in weak ways, she instinctively ramps up the mind games. And eventually, her mind games will mutate into gaslighting – their most extreme form.
So if you’re being gaslighted by your woman right now, THAT’S how you got to this point.
Pretty messed up, huh?
On the other hand, dealing with gaslighting is straightforward.
You simply need to man up, but you must do it in a way she does not expect.
That way, she’ll think you’re manning up of your own accord. And that’s so much better than manning up in response to her challenges.
I hope you’re getting the picture by now.
So what’s the best way to man up while being gaslighted?
By using a technique that’s called, aptly enough, “Reverse Gaslighting.”
And I’ll show you how it works in just a bit.
Now here’s how the Reverse Gaslighting technique works.
The first thing to do is to disappear.
Yup, you heard that right. You pack your bags and then you leave. It could be for a few days or a week, or a few weeks – it’s up to you.
The key is to NOT tell your woman anything. And when she calls or texts after you, you ignore her. You spend your “alone time” doing what you want, on your own terms.
The only time you SHOULD respond to your woman’s texts or voice mails is when she apologizes. When she starts begging you to come back, that’s when you end your “vacation,” and come back to her.
And then when you do come back to her, the first thing you do is this. You lay out new “terms and conditions” for the relationship.
For instance, you can tell her that you’ll only get back together with her if:
- Number one, she starts respecting you as the leader of the relationship…
- Number two, she does everything you tell her to do, without question…
- And number three: If she’d rather keep giving you her B.S., she can leave, because you have better things to do with your life.
Your “terms and conditions” will be up to you. And they should put you in firmly in the DOMINANT position in the relationship. Any less than that, and you’ll be better off not coming back at all.
And it’s only when she agrees to your terms that you could reward her with affection and attention again.
So make sure to execute the Reverse Gaslighting technique correctly. You’ll find yourself in total control of your relationship. It’s just as you should be, and it’s just as she wants you to be.
And that, my friend, is how to deal with gaslighting in a relationship.
Pretty good, huh?
Now here’s the thing…
The Reverse Gaslighting technique is a great cure for the problem. And yet, as the saying goes, prevention is always better than cure.
After all, if you “passed” her tests early on in the relationship, she’d never gaslight you.
So if you’re lucky enough that the gaslighting hasn’t gotten too bad yet, then I recommend a different technique.
It’s called “Fractionation.” And it’s the simplest, surest way to defeat a woman’s mind games.
It’s simple because it uses nothing more than the words you say. Fractionation is a conversation technique – something ANYONE, including yourself, can master.
And yet it’s so powerful because it makes women see you as the strongest, most dominant guy they’ve ever met.
And when they feel that way towards you, their mind games drop down to a bare minimum, if not disappear entirely.
How would you like to have a relationship where your woman NEVER played mind games on you?
And in the unlikely times she DOES play a mind game on you, you handle it effortlessly. How does that strike you?
If that sounds good to you, then you MUST master Fractionation. It’s the key.
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Remember: If a woman plays mind games on you, it means she likes you. And it means she desperately wants you to “man up” and dominate her.
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