In love with a married woman? Here’s what to do.
I made this video specifically for the guy who’s in this surprisingly common problem.
You’re in love with a woman, and she seems to like you, too.
There’s just one problem: She’s married.
So what’s a guy to do?
It’s critical to know what’s up ahead in your situation, what your options are, and what the best course of action is.
And guess what? That’s what this article is all about.
First, let’s talk about what’s in front of you right now.
The good news is this:
Even if there are a million questions in your mind right now, you really only need to follow ONE rule.
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So here’s the Platinum Rule.
If either of you is happily married or taken, it’s probably better NOT to go through with the affair.
Is she happily married? If she is, then it’s best if you left her alone.
Are YOU happily in a relationship yourself? If you are, then likewise, you’d better avoid shaking things up.
First of all, there’s no sense risking your already happy relationship with an affair. One false move and you lose BOTH women. So the risks far outweigh the rewards, if you ask me.
And likewise, if the woman you’re in love with is happily married, your affair might break her. She’ll feel so guilty it’ll ruin her marriage, her household, her family, and more.
If you asked me, I’d spare her all that heartache and just be friends with her at most.
Now, on the other hand…
If you’re single, and if she’s UNHAPPY in her marriage, then that’s a different story.
In fact, I’d call that a green light. It’s the only situation where an affair would produce a NET POSITIVE in both your lives.
If you’re single, then a relationship with her would make your life better for sure.
And if she’s UNHAPPY in her marriage, then her little tryst with you just might be the spark she needs to keep going.
She meets you. She gets her “fix.” Then she goes home, happier and better able to fill her roles as wife, mom, and homemaker.
That’s the Platinum Rule, my friend. For best results, I strongly urge you to follow it.
Now, what if that IS your situation?
Let’s say you’re single or unhappily taken, and she’s also unhappy in her marriage.
And let’s say you both feel a “spark” between you.
What should you do next?
If that sounds like your situation, then keep watching – because I’m about to show you how to do it right.
You’re about to learn a technique called the “Horrible Husband Destroyer.”
And it’s the fastest, safest way to start a secret affair with an unhappily married woman.
So how does the Horrible Husband Destroyer technique work?
Let me tell you all about the Horrible Husband Destroyer technique.
I learned this technique from my friend and mentor, the dating coach Derek Rake.
If you haven’t heard of him before, Derek isn’t like most dating coaches. From his studio in San Diego, he doesn’t teach his students any “pickup artist” nonsense.
Instead, he goes for the jugular and teaches them MIND CONTROL.
Every one of his students learns to understand the female mind completely. The reason is simple: When you know how her mind works, you’ll know how to influence her decisions.
And when you can control the choices she makes, you can pretty much create whatever outcome you want.
That’s the power of Mind Control. And the Horrible Husband Destroyer is one of Derek’s more powerful techniques.
Here’s how it works…
First, just act normal when you’re with her. Avoid making any advances – just focus on being fun to be with.
Now when she rants to you about her husband, that’s when the technique kicks in. Whenever she complains about his flaws and bad habits, you say things that make them WORSE.
For instance, let’s say she tells you that he forgot their anniversary this year. You can then say something like:
- “Wow, he really forgot? What a douche. Seriously.”
- Or you could say: “Man. You’d think he’d at least remember THAT.”
- You could also say: “Whaaat? He forgot your anniversary? That’s unbelievable.”
You see how it works, right?
At the same time, you can also draw a contrast between you and her husband. While you make his flaws look WORSE, you make your own good traits look BETTER.
For example, you can say:
- “Wow. I’d never forget a date like that. No guy should.”
- Or you could say: “September 23rd, right? That’s your anniversary? Even I remembered.”
- And you could also say: “That’s crazy. I believe no one should take a good woman for granted like that.”
If you do this, you’ll notice that she’ll rant about her husband more and more. And at the same time, she’ll like you more and more, too. She’ll start meeting you more, chatting with you more, and maybe even going on secret dates with you.
Until finally, when she rants about her husband so much she’s on the verge of tears, that’s when you push her over the edge.
You tell her: “You know what? Forget him. You have every right in the world to do whatever makes you happy. After what you’ve been through, you deserve it.”
At that, she’ll either confess her feelings for you, hug you, or straight up kiss you.
When that happens, congratulations – you’ve started a secret affair, and she’ll think it was her idea. Now you can make each other’s lives better, and no one would be the wiser.
And that, my friend, is what to do when you’re in love with a married woman.
Now, you might be thinking: “That sounds really risky, Fredo.”
Well, you’re not wrong. While the Horrible Husband Destroyer is safe, it can backfire if used carelessly.
She might see through your statements and tell you, “I know what you’re up to,” and she stops being so open with you. When that happens, you’ve pretty much lost your chance.
The key is to influence her to DECIDE to get into a secret relationship with you. She must think it was HER decision.
When she feels you’re the one who’s pushing the issue, she’ll naturally resist you. And that’s what you want to prevent from happening at all costs.
So if you don’t want to take that risk, then I suggest you take an ever safer, yet possibly even more POWERFUL technique.
This Mind Control technique is called “Fractionation.”
With Fractionation, you don’t need to wait for her to complain about her husband.
Instead, you just use the ordinary everyday conversations you have with her. And yet you’ll still get the same effect as the Horrible Husband Destroyer technique. She’ll like and trust you MORE, she’ll like and trust her husband LESS.
And in the end, she’ll decide to start a little tryst with you all by herself.
That’s the advantage of the Fractionation technique.
The disadvantage? It’s a bit more complex than the Horrible Husband Destroyer.
And that’s why I’ll let Derek himself show you how it’s done.
In just a few moments, a link will pop up inside this video.
That link will take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
And it’s in that Masterclass that Derek Rake will teach you all about Fractionation.
So click on the link and sign right up. You’ll be adding Fractionation to your toolkit of Mind Control skills straight away.
Remember: She must believe, in her mind, that it’s HER decision to start a relationship with you. That’s the key.
You can’t do that by convincing her.
Instead, you can only do that via Mind Control. And mastering Fractionation is your key to achieving that outcome and more.