“Fredo, my relationship sucks! What should I do?”
I don’t know how many times I’ve been asked this question.
It happens a lot, which is why I’m writing this article to once and for all lay out my definitive answer to this question.
Okay, so your relationship sucks. Sorry to hear that.
And you’re right — unless you do something fast, it will ALWAYS suck, and if it ends, it won’t end in a good way for you.
So pay close attention to what you’re about to learn in this video.
First, I’ll tell you exactly WHY your relationship sucks.
No matter what you think the reason is, all sucky relationships all boil down to one root cause.
Yup, just one.
So what’s this ONE ROOT CAUSE? You’re about to find out.
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So here’s why your relationship sucks.
This ONE ROOT CAUSE was introduced to me by Derek Rake – mentalist, dating coach, and my personal friend. He told me that when relationships suck, they’re all caused by one thing – and that’s HER MIND.
Or, more specifically, it’s when your partner does NOT see you as the “boss” in your relationship.
Instead, she either sees you as her equal – or worse, her subservient. And as long as she doesn’t see you as her “boss,” your relationship will continue to suck.
Why? My friend Derek says it’s because of a woman’s deepest need. And it’s not money, it’s not safety, it’s not good looks, and so on. None of that.
Instead, her deepest need is to be DOMINATED by a strong man. Not physically, but mentally and emotionally. Mother Nature has hard-wired her to zero in on the strongest, most dominant men available to her.
Now, what happens when your woman realizes you’re not as strong and dominant as she thought you were?
Mistaken? Tricked? Scammed, even? You betcha.
And these feelings will lead to tensions within the relationship. You’ll start arguing, fighting, and trying to outdo each other.
Now, you might be wondering: “But why doesn’t she just tell me what she wants? Why does she have to make the relationship so difficult?”
Well, there are three reasons for her behavior.
- First, she understands deep inside that your relationship needs a leader. And since it’s not you, she’ll try to step into the leadership role herself. And to a woman, this is an extremely stressful situation.
- Secondly, her bad behavior is an instinctive attempt to make you “man up.” She wants you to dominate her and start leading the relationship like she needs you to.
- And thirdly, she also knows that when she has to TELL you to man up and lead the relationship, it’s game over. She has established, beyond any doubt, that you’re NOT dominant. And her only recourse is to leave you.
And yet that’s not all. Here’s the kicker: Most of this happens UNCONSCIOUSLY. Your woman doesn’t even know about any of these – she just FEELS it.
And to any healthy woman, what she FEELS is all that matters to her. And so she acts – or reacts – accordingly.
So what should you do?
Keep in mind: The key is DOMINANCE. If you want a relationship to NOT suck, then its leader has to be you. Not her, and not both of you in an equal capacity. YOU.
So how exactly do you establish your dominance in a relationship that already sucks?
Here’s the answer: To use what I call the “STSA Technique.” This technique establishes your dominance in your relationship INSTANTLY. It’ll shake things up enough for your woman to accept your authority whether she likes it or not.
Spoiler alert, though – she WILL like it. More than you might think.
So how exactly does the STSA Technique work?
So here’s how to “unsuck” your relationship.
The “STSA Technique” stands for “Shock The Suck Away.”
The STSA Technique works by making your woman feel, without a doubt, that you’re the dominant one between you.
So how exactly does it work?
The first step is to initiate a “Shock Breakup.”
Yup, you heard that right.
You tell her: “You know what? This relationship isn’t working out. We’ll take a time out for a month or two and see where we go from there.”
And that’s that. Even if she disagrees, or refuses, or even argues with you, you stand your ground. The breakup happens whether she likes it or not, you pack your bags, and you spend a month or two apart.
Now, here’s the key…
You should NOT contact her at any time during the Shock Breakup. She might try to call you, or she might even send some angry texts your way. That’s okay.
Remember that if you let them get to you, you’re showing her that SHE’S the dominant one, not you. And you’ll want to avoid that at all costs.
And then, if after a month she texts you and asks how you are, that’s when you agree to meet up with her.
And when you do, tell her that you’ll only get back together with her “on certain conditions.”
And here is where you lay out your new terms for your relationship. What they are will be up to you. If you want her to follow ALL your decisions unquestioningly, tell her. If you want to spend time with the fellas every Friday night, she’s got to respect that. Those kinds of things.
If you did the Shock Breakup correctly, by this time she’ll miss you so much that she’ll agree to anything you say.
And that, my friend, is how the STSA Technique “unsucks” your relationship once and for all.
Pretty sneaky, huh?
Now, you might be wondering: “Um, Fredo, my relationship sucks, but I don’t want to lose her by accident. Is there a way to ‘unsuck’ my relationship WITHOUT having to break up with her?”
The answer is yes – but you’ll need to use a different technique.
That technique is called “Fractionation.” And you can think of it as “shocking the suck away” via ordinary everyday interactions with her.
Picture this for a moment…
You and your woman go about your lives together in your relationship. And yet as the days go by, she gets more and more agreeable, supportive, and happy with you.
Eventually, it becomes clear that YOU are the dominant leader of your relationship. And she couldn’t be happier.
Would a relationship like that suck? Absolutely not.
And yet that’s exactly what you’ll get when you master the art of Fractionation.
Ready to learn more?
Then here’s what you should do.
In a few moments, a link will come up inside this video. That link will take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
There, dating coach Derek Rake will teach you all about Fractionation. He’ll teach you what it is, why it works, and how to start using it TODAY.
To join the Masterclass, click on the link and use your best e-mail address to sign up.
As soon as you qualify, Derek himself will send you your Invite Ticket, so be sure to check your mail.
So remember. Do you want your relationship to NOT suck WITHOUT breaking up with her?
Then you MUST learn Fractionation.
And doing so is just a few clicks away.