Are you a needy guy? Or do you suspect you are, but you’re not sure?
In this video, we’ll find out the REAL characteristics of needy men once and for all.
First of all, it’s a good thing you’re watching this right now.
Why?
Well, because it’s great that you want to know whether you’re needy or not. After all, awareness is the first step in change, and change is the first step towards success in life.
And yet at the same time, if you ARE needy, then it’s best to start changing NOW. Neediness can become an irremovable habit if left alone for too long.
So are you needy or not? Here’s how to find out.
I’m about to show you the Cringeworthy Three. These are the three signs that prove without any doubt that you’re a needy man.
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So here’s the Cringeworthy Three, starting with the first sign:
For a needy man, a woman’s happiness is more important to him than his own.
Is this true for you?
Do you try to make women happy, even at your own expense?
If so, then sorry to say it – but you’re needy.
If not, then that’s great to hear. Now check if you’re showing the second sign of the Cringeworthy Three:
A needy man would never say or do anything that might remotely offend a woman.
Now, that’s not to say if you want to be NON-needy, you should offend women. That’s NOT the point at all.
Instead, if you’re afraid to offend women simply because you don’t want them to get mad, that’s needy behavior.
It’s a dead giveaway that what you’re REALLY after is for women to like you and treat you well.
And that’s never a good thing – both in dating and in life.
Now, hopefully you don’t have either of the first two signs.
That leaves the third sign, though. And that is:
For a needy man, the possible loss of a woman’s affection drives him to a panic.
Take a moment to think about the woman closest to your heart right now.
Now imagine you’re about to lose her affection.
How do you feel?
Panicked? Scared? Depressed?
If that sounds like you, then you’re needy. There’s almost no doubt about it.
So that’s the Cringeworthy Three. These are the tell-tale characteristics of needy men.
Now, do you see the common thread running through all three of the signs?
The root problem is a desperate need for female attention, affection, or validation. Or a combination thereof.
Any attention, affection, or validation women give you FEEDS this neediness. It’s like an addiction – it’s a downward spiral.
And the worst part? The more needy you are, the more women feel turned OFF by you.
So you actually get LESS AND LESS SUCCESSFUL with women over time when you’re needy.
That’s why neediness is something you want to get rid of as soon as possible.
So how exactly do you do that?
Becoming non-needy means letting go of your need for female affection and validation.
And that involves a LOT of work – mental, emotional, and physical.
Most needy guys take at least a few years before they get their stuff together – if they ever do, that is.
That’s why I suggest you follow the “ELS PROTOCOL” instead.
What’s that?
Think of the ELS Protocol as a kind of “shortcut” out of being needy.
It’s the fastest way to look non-needy AND develop the traits necessary to become TRULY non-needy in the long run.
How fast?
Think about this: Women could start seeing you as a totally non-needy guy TONIGHT.
So let me tell you about the ELS Protocol.
It was first introduced to me by my mentor and good friend, Derek Rake.
Now, Derek is an attraction coach based in San Diego. He teaches men how to understand the female mind completely.
And one of Derek’s most important lessons happens to be this one:
The female mind is primally attracted to dominance.
Now, what does this mean?
Imagine a woman had two admirers. Both men were handsome, wealthy, and confident. They only had one difference.
The first guy was needy, and he tripped over himself trying to make her happy.
On the other hand, the second guy was dominant. They went out on dates and such, but never when he had something “better” to do. To him, she was his SECOND priority in life – never the first.
Once, she even threatened to leave him if he didn’t spend more time with her. To her shock, the second guy didn’t flinch. All he said was: “I’m sorry to hear that. I wish you didn’t think that way, but if that’s your ultimatum, then okay. It’s been fun.”
Two attractive, successful men – one was needy, and one was dominant.
Which of the two do you think she’ll choose?
Nine out of ten times, the woman would choose the SECOND guy.
It’s the dominance factor. It’s what makes all the difference. And it’s what will turn YOU, too, into a more dominant, more attractive guy.
And that’s where the ELS Protocol comes in.
ELS stands for “Embarrassing Little Sister.” And that should be your new “default setting” when it comes to women you like.
Whenever you’re with a woman you’re attracted to, you flip that switch in your brain. She’s not some prize you want to win. Instead, she’s your little sister you’re very fond of, but also regularly embarrassed by.
And that means doing three things whenever you’re with her:
- First, you avoid taking her seriously, even if she’s mad at you. When she flips out on you, you sigh, roll your eyes, and do whatever you want to do.
- Secondly, you periodically tease her and make fun of her. Just like you’d make fun of an Embarrassing Little Sister, you make her laugh, pout, and slap you on the shoulder.
- And lastly, you show her you love her and only want the best for her. When she has a problem, avoid trying to solve it for her. Instead, just pull her in for a hug, letting her know you got her back.
All of these are easy to remember to do when you keep it in your mind: “ELS.” Whenever you see a woman you like: “ELS.” She’s an Embarrassing Little Sister, and you’ll treat her as such.
Simple, right?
Now, you might think: “But Fredo, that sounds like fakery.”
Well, you might be right. And yet you know what they say: “Fake it ‘til you make it.” The more you follow the ELS Protocol, the more natural it becomes for you.
Eventually, it becomes a habit that replaces your neediness completely. And that’s your real goal, isn’t it?
Like I said before, getting rid of neediness can take a long time. Years, usually.
And yet with the ELS Protocol, you’ll look like a non-needy man INSTANTLY. And if you get good results with women quickly, you can erase your neediness completely in months. Maybe even weeks.
So try it out. You’ll be amazed at how much stronger and more dominant you feel with the ELS Protocol.
Now, here’s the thing…
Getting rid of neediness is just one part of the whole equation.
The second part is just as important – and it’s to know how to make women fall in love with you.
Or better yet – as attraction coach Derek Rake would put it – ADDICTED to you.
And you can do just that with the second technique I’m about to each you.
This one’s called “Fractionation.”
What’s that?
Fractionation is a conversation technique that makes women feel ADDICTED to you. And they won’t even notice it.
Imagine the kind of addiction women have towards shopping, or TV dramas, or erotic novels.
Now imagine them feeling that exact same kind of addiction to YOU.
That’s what Fractionation does.
Sounds good, right?
It gets even better, because you can master Fractionation TODAY if you want to.
In just a moment, a link will come up in this video. When you see it, click on it right away.
It will take you to special Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
There, Derek Rake himself will show you how Fractionation works. You’ll learn what it does, why it’s so powerful, and how to start using it on women TODAY.
With Fractionation, you’ll have the COMPLETE equation. You eliminate your neediness AND make women feel ADDICTED to you in one fell swoop.
No sense waiting any longer, right?
So go ahead – click the link and join Derek’s Online Masterclass now. It’ll be the best decision you’ve ever made. Go ahead and click the link right now.
