Are you an older man who is in love with a younger woman?
Do you want to know how to make “older man, younger woman” relationships work? Then I’m pretty sure you’ll find what you’re about to learn in this article extremely useful.
Whether you’ve been single all your life or just got out of a long-term relationship, I got you. Dating younger women is always a delight – but it’s not easy, is it?
- For one, there’s the age difference. Many parts of the world frown upon “age gap relationships,” and it goes double when it’s the guy who’s older.
- And to make matters worse, younger women tend to be automatically leery of older men who hit on them.
- And worst of all – there are movements like MeToo going around. Sure, they’re fading away now that people are realizing how bad things can get. And yet they’re still here, and that means your reputation will be in danger even though you’re not doing anything wrong.
So yes – it’s not easy.
And yet it’s VERY MUCH POSSIBLE to make younger women not just like you, but also FALL IN LOVE with you.
And that’s what we’ll be talking about in this article.
But first, let me clarify something important.
This is not for old men who just want to perv on younger women. If that’s your intention, then this article is not for you.
Also, since this is a touchy topic, we’ll start by discussing what NOT to do when trying to get with younger women.
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So here’s what you should NEVER do with younger women.
Whatever you do, DO NOT TRY TO DATE HER.
That is, DO NOT try to get into a dating relationship with her. By that, I mean the usual courtship, dates, gifts, getting with her friends, meeting her parents, and so on. DO NOT do any of that.
Well, think about it. Right now, any young woman is sure to have at least a few admirers in her life. The more attractive she is, the more admirers she’ll have.
And if she’s much younger than you, that means most of her admirers will be much younger than you, too.
And that, in turn, means that you’re at a HUGE disadvantage. That’s because with all other things being equal, a woman will ALWAYS choose a guy who’s closer to her age.
In other words – the courtship process is a YOUNG MAN’S game. And when you play a young man’s game as an older guy, you’re playing to lose.
Makes sense, right? Do you agree with what I just said? Type “Yes” or “No” in the comments below so I know what you think.
In any case, if you want to get with a woman who’s much younger than you, you’ll need a different approach.
And it’s a strategy that ignores the whole “courtship process.” It makes the relationship happen MUCH FASTER.
What approach am I talking about?
It’s a technique called the “Speedhacking Sequence.” And I’ll show you how it works in just a moment.
Let me tell you all about the Speedhacking Sequence.
It’s a technique that was popularized by the attraction coach, Derek Rake.
Does his name sound familiar? He’s a San Diego-based coach and the author of the Shogun Method school of attraction for men.
Long story short – he teaches men how to influence a woman’s decisions by influencing her mind. In layman’s terms, Mind Control.
And the Speedhacking Sequence happens to be one of his more powerful techniques.
It works in two steps. The first step is to “elicit her values.” That is, you quickly find out what her deepest values are. What she likes, what she hates, what’s most important to her, her greatest fears, and so on.
And this first step is easy to do. By now, you should already know the questions that set women off. These questions include:
- “If money weren’t an issue, what would you be doing with your life?”
- Or… “If you could choose any job you want, what would it be?”
- Or even: “What’s most important to you in a relationship?”
Questions like these are awesome conversation starters, and women love them. As she answers your question, take note of the VALUES she tells you about.
For example, let’s say you asked her: “If you could choose any job you want, what would it be?”
And as she answered your question, you elicited the following values:
- One, she’s passionate about the arts and self-expression…
- Two, she dislikes the business world and the pursuit of wealth…
- And three, she doesn’t want to be tied down in a relationship.
Just for example, right?
Now, when you have a good grasp of her values, you proceed with Step Two of the Speedhacking Sequence. And that is to “anchor her values.”
That means you “anchor” or “attach” her positive values to you, and her negative values to other guys.
For example, as your conversation moves forward, you can tell her:
- “Hey, me too. I love the arts – especially the history of music.” While you’re saying this, you put your hand on your chest.
- And then later you can say: “And yeah – I really hate how music has changed from being an art to being a business these days. I don’t know if it makes you feel sick, too.” Now, while you’re saying this, you make a pushing motion with your hand away from you.
- And lastly, you say: “I don’t want marriage. I’d much rather me and my girlfriend had our own lives during the day, then we’d just come back to the same home at night.” And while you’re saying this, you motion with your hand accordingly.
That’s the Speedhacking Sequence. It’s the best “older man, younger woman hack” out there. And if you try it out, you’ll see a subtle transformation happen before your eyes.
At first, the young woman in front of you will be friendly and civil. Then as you carry out the Speedhacking Sequence, she’ll start leaning toward you. She’ll start opening up more. She’ll even bring up dating, relationships, sex, and other romantic topics all by herself.
And that’s your sign that she’s getting attracted to you. And you’ll see it all happen in the space of a single conversation.
Try it out for yourself. You’ll see the HUGE difference right away.
Although, here’s a little spoiler alert…
So let’s say she becomes attracted to you. What do you do next?
You got to seal the deal, that’s what. You got to “push her over the edge” and make her WANT to be your girlfriend.
And yes – you CAN do that. For that matter, you can do ANYTHING with the right Mind Control technique.
And in this case, the technique you need to master is called “Fractionation.”
Like the Speedhacking Sequence, this second technique is also a conversational technique. Except in Fractionation’s case, your goal isn’t to make her feel attracted to you.
Now, your goal is to make her EMOTIONALLY ADDICTED to you.
As in, she won’t care about your age gap, or if she has younger admirers, or even about what her parents might think. She’ll be so addicted that she wants YOU, and no one else.
That’s how powerful Fractionation is. And I’d love to show you how it works.
Instead, I have a better idea – I’ll let Derek Rake, the master himself, teach it to you.
At the end of this article, you’ll see a link. That link will take you to Derek’s Online Masterclass on Mind Control. So when you see it, click on it right away.
In his Masterclass, Derek will show you how Fractionation works. You’ll quickly see how it’s a technique that’s TAILOR-MADE for older, more sophisticated men like you.
Once you master it, Fractionation will be your go-to technique with younger women. You’ll love it, and they’ll love you.
Does that sound good to you?
Want to start trying it out today?
Then go ahead – click the link and join Derek’s Online Masterclass now. See you there.