What’s the psychology of love and attraction?
How do they REALLY work?
And what should you do if you want women to love you, feel attracted to you, and do absolutely anything for you?
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We’ll be answering those questions and more in this video right here.
Listen carefully to what I’m about to say because this is really important!
It’s unfortunate, but most guys don’t know how love and attraction works. It’s true!
They think a woman’s love is something they have to chase, work hard for, and “win.”
Unfortunately, that’s not the case. In fact, this way of thinking actually works AGAINST you in the dating game.
What does that mean?
Just this– If you’ve been working hard to “win” a woman’s love, then you’ve been doing it wrong.
And unless you change your approach with women FAST, you’ll KEEP doing things wrong. And one day, you’ll be too old to do anything about it.
So what’s the right way to do things? How do love and attraction REALLY work?
How Attraction Works
Here’s a clue–
Attraction is not a competition. It’s not a fight against other guys for a woman’s love.
Instead, it’s a “magnetic dance.” With her. Every guy who’s interested in her is “dancing” with her in some way.
And whether she likes it or not, she’ll feel love and attraction towards the guy who dances with her the best.
So what’s this dance all about, and how do you do it well?
The BDF Factor
This term was coined by my mentor, the dating coach and mentalist Derek Rake.
In case Derek’s name sounds familiar, he’s a San Diego-based dating coach. He’s made a name for himself online by teaching Mind Control instead of the usual “pickup artist” advice.
And one of his lessons on Mind Control focuses on the BDF Factor.
The term “BDF” stands for “Biological Driving Force.” It’s the term Derek uses to refer to the “hard-wiring” that Mother Nature has done to our brains.
For instance, a healthy man’s BDF is to overcome adversity, seduce women, and protect what’s important to them.
Meanwhile, a healthy woman’s BDF is different. Her Biological Driving Force is twofold:
- First, it’s to secure the protection and provision of a strong, dominant man;
- Second, it’s to raise strong, healthy kids who will love her no matter what.
Yup, you heard that right. This information may not be politically correct, but it IS correct. Every healthy woman has these two overwhelming drives in her mind, whether she knows it or not. And whether she LIKES it or not, for that matter.
And that brings us to the “dance” I mentioned earlier.
The dating game isn’t a fight – it’s a dance between you and her. And if you’re a good “dancer,” she’ll readily and willingly lose herself in your dance.
And that’s not all…
When you’re a good “dancer,” women will notice even if you don’t interact with them. They’ll notice you – almost like you have a magnetic effect on them.
That should be your goal. Instead of fighting to “win” women, you should instead make yourself more “magnetic” to them.
So how exactly do you do that?
The answer is in the BDF Factor – her Biological Driving Force.
To be magnetic to women, you MUST make it so they’ll immediately know they can satisfy their BDF with you.
Here’s why…
When women “fall in love at first sight” with a guy, it’s not because he looks good, or smells good, or anything like that. Instead, it’s their BDF kicking in – they instinctively know he’d make a good protector and provider.
Triggering the BDF
So, when you’re the type of guy who can:
- First, protect and provide for a woman for the rest of her life…
- And secondly, give her strong and healthy kids…
…then women will naturally feel drawn to you.
That’s why women love strong, dominant, leader-type men.
Now here’s the thing: ANY GUY can become that kind of man. And that includes you. YOU can turn yourself into a stronger, more dominant guy. And that means YOU, too, can become magnetic to women, appealing to the female psyche.
The problem is this: It might take you a LONG time to get there.
After all, strength and dominance are habits, not decisions. And it can take several weeks to months to build new habits.
Now, don’t get me wrong. You SHOULD do that. You SHOULD work to become stronger and more dominant.
And yet at the same time, you’ll want to use a “shortcut” to that strength and dominance.
What shortcut?
I call it the “BDF Trigger.” And as you might guess by its name, it’s a technique that “triggers” women’s Biological Driving Force. With it, you can make women see you as the strongest and most dominant guy they’ve met in a while… even if they’ve never met you before.
BDF Trigger Examples
Your goal is to make women feel like you’re the strongest and most dominant guy they’ve met in a long time.
And the BDF Trigger does that by making them feel like you want her, but at the same time, you’ll be just fine without her.
You make her feel these two opposing emotions over and over, like a rollercoaster.
For example – one moment, you can tell her:
“I like you. You’re cool. We should hang out again sometime.”
…and then the next moment, you tell her:
“But you said I was weird, so no worries. Let’s just swap numbers.”
That’s it.
You can also say:
“You’re interesting. The first time I saw you, I thought ‘Yeah, she’s someone I’d like to know better.”
…and then you tell her:
“It’s too bad I’m leaving town tomorrow.”
This creates a conflict in her mind. You become a puzzle she can’t figure out. You’re intriguing and attractive at the same time – definitely more than the usual guys she meets.
The more you put her on these little emotional rollercoasters, the more addicted she feels to you. And if you spend enough time with her, she’ll eventually feel so attracted to you she’ll show her interest directly.
She might start dropping hints, or she might confess her feelings, or she might pull you in for a kiss. You’ll know it when it happens.
That’s how the BDF Trigger works. It’s a powerful way to make women think you’re the best guy they’ve ever met, even if you’re not quite there yet.
Learn More Mind Control
Now, what you’ve just learned above is just scratching the surface of Mind Control.
There’s more to it. Much more.
Want to master the BDF Trigger and the “addiction-creating” principles behind it?
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