Have you ever been a victim of reverse psychology in relationships?
Want to learn how to use reverse psychology on women and give them a dose of their own medicine?
If you answered “yes” to either question, then you’ll love what you’re about to learn in this article today.
It always sucks when you’re a victim of reverse psychology. Women can emotionally blackmail you. They can also make you feel like you’re guilty of something you’re really not. And sometimes, they can even force you to do things against your will.
It’s a pain in the neck, for sure.
And yet you MUST know that reverse psychology will ALWAYS be a part of relationships.
To not know about it — or worse, deny it — means a long, difficult, and frustrating love life for you.
Meanwhile, if you know how to use reverse psychology on women, things change. Fast.
Picture this: Your relationships with women will always be pleasant and easygoing. They’ll always respect you and your authority.
And when they try to use reverse psychology on you, you can effortlessly swat away the attempt. And you know what? They’ll respect you even MORE because of it.
That’s what you get when you know how to use reverse psychology on women. It’s a HUGE difference.
And the first step to learning how to use reverse psychology is to look at the MASTERS of its use. Women!
Table of Contents
Reverse Psychology In Love
Women Don’t “Know” Reverse Psychology
These secrets were revealed to me by Derek Rake, whom you may know as the founder of Shogun Method. He also happens to be my friend and mentor, and he taught me everything I teach you in this article.
(Derek is different in that he uses Mind Control instead of pickup artist tricks to seduce women.)
Anyway, here’s the BIG SECRET he told me about women: That women actually DON’T KNOW about reverse psychology1.
Or at least, they don’t know about it CONSCIOUSLY2.
Instead, it’s simply their “default mode” when they’re with a man they’re attracted to. It’s their instinctive, Mother Nature-intended way to “test” him if he’s for real3.
Examples of (Unconscious) Reverse Psychology
I remember one of my clients who told me a classic example of reverse psychology. He told me that he’s had three girlfriends so far, and they all gave him the same “test” at some point.
The “test” went this way: They made him choose between her and his work.
For instance, in university, his girlfriend then would tell him: “I want to watch a movie.”
Then he’d say, “But I need to study for an exam tomorrow.”
And then she’d say: “Well, you got to choose what’s more important, then.”
Obviously, he ended up watching a movie with her, thinking it would make her happy. And yet she broke up with him before the semester ended.
Pretty crazy, huh?
His next girlfriend gave him the same “test.” She made him choose between spending the weekend with her or at an important convention.
He chose her and then she broke up with him later on.
It’s utterly confusing, but only if you don’t know what’s going on.
What Women Want?
Why Women Use Reverse Psychology On Men
What most guys don’t know is that women almost NEVER tell you directly what they want.
If she wants you to ask her out, or invite her home, et cetera, she won’t tell you directly.
Instead, she’ll use reverse psychology. She’ll challenge you, she’ll give you tough choices, and she’ll make you feel guilty if you do something she dislikes.
And it’s all in an effort to make you do what they want, WITHOUT telling you directly.
Now, you might be wondering: So why don’t they just tell us what they want?
It’s all society’s fault, actually. Modern society tends to disapprove of women who “make the first move” in the dating game.
You know how it is, right?
When a guy approaches women to “pick them up,” people call him “smooth” or a “ladies’ man.”
And yet when a woman approaches men to do the same, she’s “slutty.”
That’s the problem.
Once people start calling a woman “slutty,” her chances of finding a good man go way down.
That’s something most women want to avoid at all costs. And so they use reverse psychology, trying to get what they want from men without making the first move.
And yet that’s not the worst problem.
Why Women Don’t Make Sense
So, here’s the deal…
Even if you end up doing what she wants all the time, she’ll actually end up HATING you.
Yup, you read that right.
She might love it in the short-term. In the long run, though, she’ll feel so bored and disgusted that she’ll leave you. If you don’t give up and leave her first, that is.
Do you find any of this mind-blowing? If you do, then it’s no surprise. Most men don’t know about this hidden world of reverse psychology.
And here’s the kicker: Most WOMEN don’t know about this hidden world, either. It’s all subconscious to them, like it’s their “default mode.” They can’t help it, and so we can’t hold it against them.
That’s why it’s a mistake to think that women are crazy, or cruel, or evil by nature. That kind of thinking will just lead to more frustration and confusion for you. So avoid it at all costs.
And instead, you should give women a dose of their own medicine.
Why? It’s because guess what – that’s EXACTLY what they want from you.
They might not know it, but they actually WANT you to beat them at their own game. They want you to DOMINATE them mentally and intellectually.
They don’t know it, but it’s every healthy woman’s GREATEST NEED. To be dominated by a strong, mentally-fit man who loves them. It’s the only state where a woman feels TRULY happy.
And I’m about to show how you, too, can be that kind of strong, dominant man.
I’m about to show you a concept that Derek Rake and I call “Converse Psychology.” And not only will it defend you from reverse psychology, but it’s also your main “weapon” to mentally dominate her.
Anti-Reverse Psychology – “Converse“ Psychology
What Is Converse Psychology
Converse Psychology has two parts – the mindset and the mechanics.
The Converse Psychology mindset is your “default mode of thinking.” It’s based on the assumption that women ALWAYS use reverse psychology on you.
Yes. Always. No exceptions. When you’re interacting with a woman, you always assume she’s trying to make you do something she wants.
Secondly, the Converse Psychology mechanics comprise your “default mode of acting.” Your first impulse is to resist giving in to a woman’s scheming. Instead, you do what you want. And she can go with you or leave you.
As a man, you have the power to walk away from anything you don’t like. You are sovereign; nobody can force you to do anything you don’t want to.
Converse Psychology Example
Let me illustrate how Converse Psychology works with an example.
Let’s say a woman is dating two guys. She wants one of them to take her out for the weekend, so she asks the first guy.
As it turns out, Guy #1 is busy – he’s working on a project at home. He invites her to spend the weekend at his place, which she doesn’t want to do.
So she uses reverse psychology on him. She says: “Look, if you’re always so busy, maybe we should just stop seeing each other. Anyway, I need my space, too.”
Now, Guy #1 is savvy. He knows what she’s trying to do. And so he uses Converse Psychology and tells her:
“You’re probably right. Too bad. In any case, we could always be friends. I’ll see you next week, maybe.”
Meanwhile, she also contacts Guy #2. And he immediately drops everything he’s doing. He says he’s totally available and will take her anywhere she wants.
Now here’s the question: Who do you think the woman will be more attracted to?
Without a doubt, she’ll like Guy #1 more.
Sure, she might end up going out with Guy #2 for the weekend. And yet she’ll always feel more attracted to the first guy because he’s the stronger and more dominant one. And he’s not a pushover like the second guy.
And what usually happens is that she’ll eventually put Guy #2 in the friend-zone while she hooks up with Guy #1.
And she later finds out she’s not alone. There are many, many other women who are vying for Guy #1’s attention and affection.
So, what do you think? Would you rather be like Guy #1, or Guy #2?
If you’d rather be the guy who doesn’t get swayed by reverse psychology, then you know what to do. Converse Psychology is your first line of defense. Try it out – you’ll be amazed at how much more attractive you become to the ladies.
Now, you might be thinking: “That’s awesome, Fredo. Is there anything else I can use against reverse psychology?”
Well, there IS another thing.
Fighting Women’s Reverse Psychology With Advanced Mind Control
Converse Psychology is like the “cure” for reverse psychology in relationships. It’s best used when you’re already being “assaulted” by it.
At the same time, prevention is better than cure. It’s so much better to make women come clean, NOT use reverse psychology in relationships, and communicate directly.
This technique is called “Fractionation.” It’s a storytelling technique that steadily makes a woman feel more and more ADDICTED to you.
And the formula is simple: The more addicted she is to you, the less she’ll do anything to risk losing you. And that includes playing her mind games – reverse psychology included.
So if you want to learn how to PREVENT reverse psychology as well as CURE it, then pay close attention.
At this end of this article, you will find a link will take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
There, Derek Rake himself will teach you all you need to know about Fractionation.
You’ll learn what it is, how it works, and – most importantly – how to start using it TODAY. (And no, if you have heard the allegations that Fractionation is evil, it is not.)
And always remember this:
Reverse psychology will ALWAYS be a part of all male-female relationships.
My advice? Learn to give women a dose of their own medicine.
After all, it’s what they want the MOST from you. Seriously!
So go ahead – click this link and join Derek’s Online Masterclass now. Do it.
Frequently Asked Questions
How to use reverse psychology on women?
One word answer: with Fractionation. Put your woman on an emotional roller coaster–so you’ll push her away so that she comes close to you.
What are examples of reverse psychology in relationships?
Mind games women play are a manifestation of reverse psychology in relationships.
How can I use reverse psychology in text messages?
Fractionation is the way to do it. Learn about “One Sentence Fractionation”.
How to use reverse psychology on your crush?
It’s a delicate balance between communicating indifference and disinterest. Use Shogun Method.
How to use reverse psychology on your ex-girlfriend or wife?
There’s this technique inside Shogun Method which combines Love Bombing and the “Rug Pull” which fractionates a woman – so that she comes back to your arms willingly.REFERENCES
- Derek Rake, The Three Preconditions, Shogun Method, 2015[↩]
- Braxton-Davis, Princess (2010) “The Social Psychology of Love and Attraction,”McNair Scholars Journal: Vol. 14: Iss. 1, Article 2.[↩]
- Macdonald, Geoff & Nail, Paul & Harper, Jesse. (2011). Do people use reverse psychology? An exploration of strategic self-anticonformity. Social Influence. 6. 1-14. 10.1080/15534510.2010.517282.[↩]