Want to learn how to attract 99.9% of women? Then keep watching – because believe it or not, it’s possible.
Now, you might be thinking: “Nah, Fredo’s exaggerating.”
Well, you wouldn’t be wrong. It’s impossible to literally get with 99.9% of women. I mean, think of all the work you’d have to do, right? It’s nuts.
And yet here’s the thing. While you can’t attract 99.9% of women, you CAN be attractive to them.
Imagine that for a moment.
Whenever you meet a new woman, she may or may not get into a relationship with you. And yet you can bet your life she’ll feel ATTRACTED to you.
That’s what I mean by attracting 99.9% of women.
And yes, I’ll show you how it’s done in today’s article.
We’ll start with perhaps the MOST IMPORTANT distinction about attraction. And that is the difference between attraction and affection.
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Affection vs Attraction (The Difference)
It’s really simple. Feeling ATTRACTED makes a woman move emotionally CLOSER to you.
That is, when a woman is attracted to you, she feels the urge to get intimate with you. She may or may not act on that urge, but it’s there. Gnawing at her from the inside.
Meanwhile, feeling AFFECTION makes her move emotionally AWAY from you.
Affection basically means she LIKES you because you’re funny, or smart, or wealthy, etc.
And when she feels AFFECTION towards you, she’s more likely to friend-zone you.
Makes sense, right?
You’ve tried to make women LIKE you, right?
And it only made them friend-zone you – or worse, right?
Affection and attraction are two VERY different emotions.
And here’s the kicker. The more affection a woman feels towards you, the LESS attracted she is to you.
It’s inversely proportional, in other words. The more she “likes” you, the less she wants to get intimate with you.
It’s crazy, but it’s true.
How do I know?
It’s all because I’ve spent the last few years studying nothing but female psychology. Myself and 17,000 other men around the world, that is.
I’m a member of Shogun Method. It’s an online community where men study the use of deep psychology in the dating arena. (ShogunMethod.net is where we all hang out)
And here’s one of our most fascinating discoveries. Attraction plays a tug-of-war against affection in a woman’s mind.
The more she LIKES you, the LESS ATTRACTED she gets to you.
It’s crazy, but true.
Now, you might be wondering:
“Okay, Fredo, so does that mean I shouldn’t make women like me? Does that mean I should only focus on making her feel ATTRACTED to me?”
Well, that depends.
It’s like this: If you build TOO MUCH attraction and TOO LITTLE affection, here’s what happens. She might go on a quick one-night-stand with you. She might even become friends-with-benefits with you. And worse, she will pile on the shit tests and reverse psychology tricks on you like never before.
And yet once the attraction fades – and it WILL fade – then she’ll leave you.
Do you want a strong, happy, lifelong relationship with the woman of your dreams?
Then you’ll need to strike a BALANCE between building attraction and affection.
After that, I’ll tell you all about the right balance between attraction and affection.
And no, it’s NOT 50-50. Can you guess what the ideal balance is?
The Ideal Balance Between Attraction & Affection
Again, it’s not 50-50. Instead, it’s more two-is-to-one.
Want a woman to fall MADLY IN LOVE with you? Then the attraction she feels toward you must be TWICE as powerful as her affection.
And here’s the thing: When you meet the “girl of your dreams,” you must NOT try to make her like you.
Instead, the first emotion she should feel towards you must be ATTRACTION. Then you “balance” her feelings with some warm, fuzzy affection.
How exactly do you do that?
I suggest you use a Shogun Method technique called “Entice-Repel.”
Here’s how that works…
As its name implies, “Entice-Repel” involves Enticing and Repelling her.
“Enticing” simply means giving her a good emotion. A good example is rewarding her with affection when she does something you like.
Meanwhile, “Repelling” means giving her a BAD emotion. Such as by teasing her, or not doing what she wants, or by saying “No” to her request.
The formula is simple: You Entice her twice, and you Repel her once. Two-is-to-one. Over and over.
Here’s an example.
Let’s say you’re with a woman and you’re getting to know each other. She’s telling you about herself – who she is, what she does for a living, what she likes to do, and so on.
You then decide to put together a simple sequence: Entice, Repel, Entice.
Let’s say she tells you about her job. “I work at the city hospital,” she says.
First, you Entice her. “Wow,” you say. “That’s impressive. Were you at the frontlines when this Covid thing broke out?”
Let’s say she answers: “Oh, no way… I’m in administration.”
Then you Repel her. You laugh and say: “Oh, okay. And here I was, thinking I was talking to a modern-day hero. I was going to buy you coffee or something.”
And then let’s say she’s mildly hurt by your comment. She says: “Aww, come on. I should have told you I was a virus doctor or something.”
And lastly, you Entice her back. “Nah, just messing. Come on, let’s go get a beverage somewhere.”
See how it works?
You’re basically sandwiching a Repel between two Entices. It’s a simple technique that spices up any conversation, even when just doing small talk.
More importantly, though, it has a powerful effect on the female mind. Specifically, Entice-Repel pulls the “addiction trigger” in her brain.
In other words, the more you use Entice-Repel on a woman, the more addicted she gets to you. In the beginning, it lights the first spark of attraction in her. Later on, that attraction grows into addiction.
That’s the secret behind Entice-Repel. It has a proven psychological effect on the female mind.
Entice-Repel: How Do You Know If It’s Working?
You’ll know it’s working when she starts showing the following signs:
- When she starts warming up to you
- When she starts telling you intimate details about herself
- When she starts dropping hints about dating or sex.
That’s the powerful effect of Entice-Repel. And now you, too, have the power. You’re welcome.
Now, here’s the thing about Entice-Repel – it’s a finesse skill.
That is, it’s something you get good at with practice. So it’s hard to explain fully in an article like this one.
That’s why I got something even better lined up for you.
At the very end of this article, I’ve posted a link. That link will take you to the special Online Masterclass on Mind Control.
It’s hosted by the Shogun Method community, so you can’t hope for better mentors.
In the Online Masterclass, you’ll learn all about Entice-Repel. Or as it’s called in psychological circles, “Fractionation.”
And let me tell you this. Fractionation is one of the most important, most powerful techniques you’ll ever learn.
In fact, many Shogun Method members achieved their dream relationships using it. And nothing else.
Now, it’s your turn.
Want women to not just like you?
Want them to get totally ADDICTED to you emotionally?
And are you willing to do whatever it takes to win the dating game?
Then you know what to do. Click this link and join the Online Masterclass now.