Is there a woman you’re deeply in love with, but you just got rejected by her? Then check out this article.
I’m about to share with you a “hack” you can use to recover from rejection. And it won’t matter how heartbroken you might feel right now.
And trust me – I KNOW how you feel.
Getting rejected by her – or any other woman – SUCKS. Period. It’s not just a failed attempt that you can quickly recover from. It’s a real blow to your manhood – like you’ve failed as a man because of it.
So on one hand, I know the pain you feel.
On the other hand, I must tell you about the danger you’re in. If you can’t recover from rejection FAST, you’ll turn into a bitter, spiteful guy who will never be happy in life.
Let’s make sure that doesn’t happen, eh?
I’m about to show you a technique called the “Pedestal Switch.” It’s the fastest way to recover from rejection.
And that’s not all…
Pedestal-Switching will also make sure you NEVER feel the sting of rejection again.
Does that sound too good to be true? If so, then you’re in for an eye-opening, life-changing experience in this article.
The Pedestal Switch Technique
So let me tell you about the Pedestal Switch technique.
It was first taught to me by Derek Rake. He’s an attraction coach for men and an expert in female dating psychology. I’ve reviewed his flagship program Shogun Method here.
Derek teaches men how to lead relationships not with pickup tricks, but with SCIENCE.
And one of his most important lessons happens to be about “Pedestalizing.” Here’s what that’s about.
“Pedestalizing” means putting a woman you like on an imaginary “pedestal” in your life. It’s as if you see her as some goddess to be worshipped and pleased, or some prize to work hard for and “win.”
Are you guilty of Pedestalizing? Here are some common signs that you are.
- Maybe you can’t stop thinking of new ways to please a woman or make her laugh.
- Or when she needs something, you drop everything you’re doing to help her.
- Or when she asks you to stop doing something you love, you do it right away.
- Or when you make sure you NEVER offend her or make her angry.
If any of these sound like your behavior around women – then yes, you’re Pedestalizing. And that’s the opposite of what makes relationships work.
And guess what – it’s the reason why you get rejected by women so easily and so often.
Why? Pedestalizing women makes you look weak, submissive, and a slave to your emotions.
It’s like she’s your “queen,” and you’re her “slave.” That’s the dynamic you put into play when you Pedestalize a woman.
Think about it. Do queens fall in love with slaves? Nope. In fact, when a slave tries to make a move on a queen, he’d probably get thrown in the dungeon!
If getting rejected feels like being thrown in the dungeon to you – well, now you know why.
What do you think? Do you agree that Pedestalizing NATURALLY leads to rejection?
In any case, here’s the solution – you need to Pedestal-Switch.
That is, you got to make it so that you NEVER put women on a pedestal. Instead, you put YOU on a pedestal.
That is, you put your happiness, your needs, your self-actualization, your goals and dreams, your purpose or mission in life…
…ALL THAT comes first. And women, dating, sex, and relationships – they’re all a distant second for you.
That way, YOU do the rejecting. Women either tag along with you for the ride of a lifetime… or they step aside, making way for a better woman to walk into your life.
THAT’S the kind of dynamic your relationships should have.
Sounds good, right?
There’s just one problem, though – Pedestal-Switching is a HUGE mindset shift.
And that means it might take a long time to do, especially if you’ve been a “nice guy” for most of your life.
So here’s what I suggest: Use a shortcut.
To be specific, use a technique to Pedestal-Switch in an INSTANT. And it’s called the TBD Sequence.
TBD Sequence
So here’s how the TBD Sequence works.
“TBD” stands for “That’s Boyfriend Duty.”
And that’s pretty much it. It’s that simple. “That’s Boyfriend Duty” is the simple line you say when a woman tries to treat you like a slave.
For instance, let’s say you’re trying to get with a woman you just met. Things are going well, although you can sense she’s hesitating to get romantic with you. Like she’s playing hard to get – which is normal.
And then suddenly, out of the blue, she asks for a favor. She calls you and says her car broke down and she needs you to give her a ride.
This time, you don’t Pedestalize her. You don’t drop what you’re doing to help her.
Instead, you tell her: “Nah, That’s Boyfriend Duty.”
Or let’s say she asks you to lend her money. You then tell her: “Are you serious? That’s Boyfriend Duty.”
Or let’s say she wants you to take her to a party or concert you don’t care for. You tell her: “Ask your boyfriend. That’s Boyfriend Duty.”
You see how it works? And if you notice there’s some similarity to reverse psychology, then you’re right.
And that’s not all. When you use this technique, one of two things will happen.
Either she gets offended and leaves in a huff, saying something like: “Okay, maybe I will.” Which is a good thing – you’ve successfully weeded out a manipulator from your dating rotation.
Or something else might happen – a Pedestal-Switch. That is, she stops trying to manipulate you and instead starts QUALIFYING herself to you.
She might say something like: “What? Hey, pleeease? I’ll do anything.”
Or she might laugh, play along, say something like: “What? But I thought you WERE my boyfriend!”, to which you might retort: “What? Me? We’ve never even slept together. Not even third base. What are you talking about?”
That’s what an instantaneous Pedestal-Switch looks like. It’s beautiful when you realize she’s trying to win YOU over instead of the other way around.
Try the TBD Sequence out sometime. You’ll be surprised at how quickly your love life will change.
Now, here’s a spoiler alert…
When she starts showing signs of attraction, you’ll need to switch to a different approach. Now, you’ll need to CAPITALIZE on her attraction.
If you don’t, she’ll lose interest in you very quickly. And not only that – now she’ll hate you, too, because she’ll feel like you played her like a fool.
So what should you do now? The next technique I’ll introduce you to will turn her growing attraction and sexual tension into ADDICTION.
And it’s all you’ll need to start a relationship that will be strong, happy, and exciting for a lifetime.
The Ultimate Rejection Recovery Technique
So what’s this technique?
It’s called Fractionation. And long story short, it’s a storytelling technique that makes her feel more and more ADDICTED to you over time.
Yup – not just attracted or seduced. She’ll be TOTALLY ADDICTED to you. She’ll do whatever it takes to keep you.
Fractionation is the “secret ingredient” in today’s happiest and most successful relationships.
Check out the link at the end of this article. It will take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control, hosted by Derek Rake.
If you’ll recall, Derek’s the guy behind everything I’m teaching you now. In this Masterclass, he’ll teach you all about Fractionation – what it is, how it works, and how to start using it TODAY.
Combined with the “TBD Sequence,” you won’t just recover from your past rejections. You’ll also flip the script, and start doing the rejecting YOURSELF.
So, are you ready to FINALLY be in control of your love life?
Want to start making women qualify themselves to YOU instead of the other way around?
And are you ready to change your life RIGHT NOW?
Then go ahead – click this link and join Derek’s Online Masterclass right now. I’ll see you there.
