What are the surefire signs it’s time to end a relationship?
It’s not always clear when to call it quits, is it?
There’s always that nagging thought you “shouldn’t give up” on your relationship… no matter how bad it becomes.
But what SHOULD you do? End it, or keep working on it?
Hey, I know how you feel.
I mean, if your relationship is doomed to fail, it’s better to end it now, right?
It’s just so hard to know if your relationship really IS doomed to fail.
And one of the worst feelings in the world is later realizing you could have saved your relationship… but didn’t. That STINKS, too.
So if you feel like you’re trapped, there’s good reason for you to feel like that, believe me.
So here’s what I’ll do for you…
In just a moment, I’ll give you the definitive list of 10 signs it’s time to end a relationship.
If your relationship is showing more than a few of these 10 signs… then yes, your relationship is probably going nowhere, and it’s time to end things.
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Signs It’s Time To End A Relationship Or Marriage
Now here are the 10 signs it’s time to end a relationship.
Sign number one is this: You don’t trust her.
Either you suspect she’s already seeing other men… or you think trusting her with your life or finances would be a VERY bad idea.
Sign number two: You feel the relationship would be okay if only she “changed a little.”
This is a sign that you’ve lost your leadership of the relationship… or you’ve given up trying to get it back.
Sign number three: She’s not willing to compromise with you.
When it’s always “her way or the highway,” it means she’s taken full control over your relationship… and over you. And that’s never a good thing.
Sign number four: She’s unhappy no matter how hard you try to please her.
This is a sign you have the wrong mindset – that it’s your job to make her happy.
It’s not. Her happiness is HER job.
Your job is to make the relationship work… which we’ll talk about more in this article.
For now, let’s move on to Sign number five–
Your values, ideals, and plans for the future are starkly different.
When you never seem to be on the same page with your woman, it’s a breakup that’s just waiting to happen.
Sign number six: You’re needy as heck.
Do you believe that if she’s happy, you’ll be happy, too?
If you do, then it means you’re needy… and neediness is a poison to ANY relationship.
Sign number seven: She no longer keeps her promises.
Relationships – not just marriages – are founded on certain promises, right?
If she’s supposed to keep certain promises to you… and she doesn’t… it means she doesn’t respect you.
Sign number eight: There’s very little to no sex happening.
Unless both of you are conservative… your relationship should be nourished with sexual intimacy on a regular basis. If it’s not, then that’s a bad sign.
Sign number nine: You no longer have an identity outside the relationship.
If your relationship IS your life… and outside your relationship, you’re a “nobody”… that means the relationship has already sucked you dry, and you have no more to give.
Sign number ten: You can list down several reasons your life would be better without her.
If you could write down reason after reason your life would IMPROVE when the relationship ends… then it’s clear. Now would be a good time to end it.
How To Save A Relationship Or Marriage
So there you have it – the ten signs it’s time to end your relationship.
Now here’s the thing…
Even if you see more than a few of the signs above in your own relationship… it doesn’t mean you absolutely HAVE to end the relationship.
It simply means you have two choices. One, you can end the relationship and your life would be the better for it…
…or two, you can SAVE your relationship, and BOTH your lives would be the better for it.
Yes, you heard me right. You CAN save your relationship… even if all the signs tell you to end it.
Now how exactly do you save a failing a relationship?
The quick answer: With the power of Mind Control.
Now, by the phrase “Mind Control,” I don’t mean you hypnotize your woman to obey your every command. That’s Hollywood hooey.
Instead, I’m talking about applied psychology… cognitive behavioral therapy… advanced hypnotherapy… the scientifically-established kind of Mind Control.
Now, if you’re wondering why I’m talking about Mind Control all of a sudden, here’s why…
You’ll need to understand the simple fact that if your relationship is failing, it’s because you or your woman… or both of you… are making decisions that CAUSE it to fail.
Makes sense, right?
Here’s another fact that makes sense:
If you want to save your relationship and get your woman to love you again, then both of you need to start making BETTER decisions.
- For instance, you must make the decision to STOP BEING NEEDY… and instead become STRONG AND DOMINANT.
- And your woman needs to make the decision to STOP PLAYING MIND GAMES… and instead start RESPECTING YOUR AUTHORITY.
And that’s where Mind Control comes in.
Mind Control is all about influencing thoughts and emotions… which in turn influence decision-making.
Change your current state, change your decisions, change your relationship.
Now we come to the obvious question: How exactly can you make that happen… especially now when your relationship is on the brink of breaking up?
Here’s the answer:
With a Mind Control technique that REVERSES the downward spiral of your relationship.
This Mind Control technique is called the “Controlled Breakup…” and I’m about to explain how it works.
Controlled Breakup Technique
The “Controlled Break” works in three steps.
First, you don’t wait for your woman to leave you. Instead, you initiate the breakup yourself.
You tell her: “You know what, I think we should spend some time away from each other.”
Or you can tell her: “This isn’t working out… let’s break up.”
Now, I know what you’re thinking. You’re probably wondering: “Wait, I thought we were going to save my relationship. Now you’re telling me to initiate the breakup myself?”
Put simply, yes. But that’s only ONE STEP in the process.
If you ONLY take that step, then yes, it would be crazy.
But there’s a method to our madness, as you’ll see in the next two steps of the Controlled Breakup.
The second step is to double-down on the breakup.
When you initiate the breakup, she might react violently. But no matter how mad or upset she gets, you must NOT back down.
Instead, you double-down on the breakup. You stand firm on your decision and let the relationship end.
On the other hand, she might agree with your suggestion and break up with you. That’s fine.
But a few weeks later, she’ll start missing you.
Because it was YOU who initiated the breakup… not her.
You ended the relationship with YOU in the strong, dominant leadership position… not her.
And subconsciously, she’ll leave the relationship thinking the breakup was a mistake.
So she’ll miss you and start reaching out to you.
And when she does… double-down on the breakup.
“You know what? I think the breakup was the best decision we’ve ever made. I haven’t been this happy in a long time – I have new friends, new women, new hobbies… everything.”
Either way, you make her think it’s really, truly over.
Then it’s time for step three… which is to start over on a blank slate.
A few weeks after ending your relationship, touch base with her if she doesn’t touch base with you first.
Tell her to meet you just to catch up. Meet her as a friend and have a good time together. Go on these friendly dates until she brings up the idea of getting back together.
That’s when you lay out your terms. You tell her:
“I’m not against the idea of trying again… but if we did try again, this time we’ll do it my way.”
And so you make the rules. You lead, she follows. She respects your decisions no matter what. And the moment she starts playing her funny games again, you’re gone.
At this point, she’ll miss you so much that she’ll gladly say “yes” to your terms.
Congratulations – you’ve just saved a failing relationship.
One More Step To Restore A Relationship
Don’t rest on your laurels, though, because your job’s not done.
Once you establish your leadership over your new relationship… you’ll need to MAINTAIN that leadership.
And that means you’ll have to make her EMOTIONALLY ADDICTED to you… so much that she’ll never do anything to undermine your authority ever again.
How do you do that?
With Mind Control, of course.
Here’s a bit of trivia about the “Controlled Breakup” technique… It’s just a variation of an even more POWERFUL technique.
That “mother” technique is called Fractionation.
It was developed by my friend and mentor, Derek Rake… who also happens to be the only coach in the world who teaches Mind Control instead of pickup artist tricks. (Read my review of his flagship program Shogun Method here.)
And Fractionation is his most central, most powerful technique.
If you don’t know how to use Fractionation, then you’ll lose your woman all over again… and all that work will have been for nothing. What a waste, right?
But if you DO know Fractionation… then she’ll become so emotionally dependent on you that she’ll stay with you ‘til death do you part.
This Online Masterclass will be hosted by none other than the master himself… Derek Rake.
So if you want to save your relationship, this could be the best chance you’ll ever get. Believe me.
So go right ahead – click this link and join Derek’s Online Masterclass. Do it now.