Do you have a toxic wife? Are you in a toxic marriage, and you’re suffering from it? Are you stuck in a relationship with a toxic woman?
Let me start by saying this…
A toxic wife is bad news for one reason. She’ll get worse and worse the longer you don’t “detoxify” her.
And detoxify her, you must. Learning how to deal with a toxic wife is the key to making your marriage work.
Before you do, though, you’ll need to find out…
Is she REALLY toxic? Or is she just super-naggy for some reason?
Let’s find out, shall we?
You’re about to learn the THREE BIGGEST SIGNS of a toxic wife. Continue reading, and remember to take lots of notes!
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Three Signs of a Toxic Wife
The first sign is when your marriage feels like a power struggle.
Either she’s trying to usurp your position as the head of the household…
…Or you made the fatal mistake of agreeing to “coequal” authority with her.
In both cases, your wife will feel terribly insecure and unsure about you. She won’t know how to explain it, so she acts out by being toxic to you instead.
That’s the first sign – the power struggle.
And as she struggles for power in the marriage, she pulls off the usual shitty tricks on you, including gaslighting and reverse psychology.
Now, here’s the second sign of a toxic wife: When she disrespects you, especially in public.
Deep inside, women know that one of the worst ways to hurt a man – if not the worst – is to disrespect him. To do so in full view of other people makes it twice as hurtful.
(And women subconsciously know that men cannot stand being disrespected in public – and therefore will use that power move to undermine their husbands1.)
Does YOUR wife disrespect you? If she does, she’s being toxic – and she probably knows it, too.
Now here’s the third sign: The more you appease her, the more toxic she gets.
This one’s probably the most common sign of all. No matter how hard you try to make her happy, she simply gets worse and worse.
So how many of these signs do you see in your own wife?
And yet again, even if you spot just ONE sign, then that’s a call to action. You MUST detoxify her, and fast.
We’ll get to that in just a moment.
Can a Toxic Marriage Be Saved?
For now, let’s answer a more pressing question:
What is the ROOT CAUSE of all this toxicity?
Well, I can answer that question. Or more specifically, WE can.
I belong to an online community called Shogun Method. We’re a group of about 17,000 men from all over the world. And we do one thing: Study the female mind and how it works in relationships and marriage.
And over many years, we’ve pored over science journals, tested our theories, and shared our results. (For example, we have distilled scientific research such as The Humanistic Psychologist2 into this particular guide.)
If you are, then pay close attention to what you’re about to learn in this article. It just might save your marriage.
You know what we found about toxic wives?
We’ve determined that all toxicity is the result of a DOWNWARD SPIRAL in a marriage.
And it all starts with one thing…
The loss of attraction.
Put simply, your wife has stopped feeling attracted to you.
As a result, she starts feeling insecure and super-stressed. Like she feels she’d been scammed into marrying a weak, unattractive man.
And so she does what every healthy woman would do. She acts out in hopes of making you “man up” again.
And here’s the kicker – she doesn’t even know she’s doing it.
It’s instinctive. And it’s meant to do a good thing, which is to restore your strength and dominance.
It may sound crazy, but that’s what the science says. And if you follow the scientific advice I’ll be giving you in just a moment, you’ll see it for yourself.
Now, regardless, the most pressing question of all needs to be asked.
How do you “detoxify” your toxic wife?
Here’s our answer.
You need to use what we in Shogun Method call the “3D Detoxifier Strategy.”
How to Deal with a Toxic Wife
The 3D Detox Strategy
“3D” is short for “Desolation, Deceit, and Danger.” These are the three new TRAITS you should develop in yourself.
After all, the reason your wife is toxic is that you’re not the strong, dominant leader she needs you to be. And so the change has to start with you.
So let’s go through the 3 D’s one by one.
First, there’s Desolation. This simply means you have to be 100% comfortable with living for yourself.
This means two things:
- YOUR happiness should be more important to you than HER happiness. And,
- You should have a mission in life that’s greater than your wife or your marriage.
What should your mission be? That’s up to you. It’s got to be something compelling, something that gives your life meaning even if your wife left you.
That’s the first D – Desolation.
Here’s the second one: Deceit. This means you should be 100% comfortable with doing whatever it takes to get the results you want.
And yes, that includes manipulating your wife.
You should be totally fine with influencing her thoughts and decisions. For instance, you can tell a white lie to make her less toxic and more supportive.
As you can see, Deceit can be good if it produces good results.
And lastly, here’s the third D – Danger.
This simply means you should regularly put your wife under emotional stress. (You can simply walk away and ignore her.) Which you’ll relieve afterward, of course.
Here’s what that means…
You shouldn’t hesitate to tease her, challenge her, argue with her, or put her in stressful situations.
Whenever you do any of the above, THEN relieve the stress, guess what happens?
She’ll start seeing you as her “savior,” or “hero,” or “pillar of strength.”
In other words, you’re reclaiming the leadership spot in the marriage.
And that’s precisely what your wife is waiting for you to do – even if she doesn’t know it.
And there you have it – that’s the 3D Technique. And it’s your ticket to fixing your toxic marriage and FINALLY getting that “happily ever after.”
How to Fix a Toxic Marriage
Now, you might be thinking: “But Fredo, all that sounds kind of controversial. I don’t think I’m ready to do all of that.”
Well, you wouldn’t be wrong. The 3D Technique isn’t exactly a “warm and fuzzy” technique.
Still, it gets you the results you want. And that alone should make it worth it, right?
And yet if that’s how you feel, I totally understand. So here’s what I’d suggest.
Among the three D’s in the technique, the last one – Danger – is the most important.
If you can do JUST that, then that would be enough.
You’ll need more time to detoxify your wife, but it’ll do the trick.
However, I suggest you use an alternate form of Danger. This one only involves storytelling.
That variation of Danger has a proper name in psychological circles. It’s called “Fractionation.”
And, like the rest of the 3D Technique, it’s not exactly politically correct.
So here’s what I’ll do for you…
At the end of this article, you will find a link.
That link will take you to a special Online Masterclass on Mind Control. Hosted by the enlightened people of Shogun Method, of course.
There, we’ll teach you everything you need to know about Fractionation. You’ll learn what it is, how it works, and how to start using it on your wife TODAY.
It’s the fastest, surest way to detoxify your wife.
Remember – you’re running out of time.
So let’s not waste the opportunity, right?
Go ahead – click the link and sign right up. I’ll see you on the other side inside the Shogun community.REFERENCES
- LeBaron, Carly DL, Richard B. Miller, and Jeremy B. Yorgason. “A longitudinal examination of women’s perceptions of marital power and marital happiness in midlife marriages.” Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy 13.2 (2014): 93-113.[↩]
- Muller, René J. “Failing narcissistic defenses can turn love toxic.” The Humanistic Psychologist 39.4 (2011): 375-378.[↩]